When it comes to sex talk with my girlfriends, the number one complaint is often, “I wish my lover was more dominant in bed.” And it’s not that any of my friends have read Fifty Shades of Grey and thought, I want someone like Christian, the dom protagonist. No, it’s more that their men are passive, disinterested, or too “careful” with their moves.
Being dominant in bed doesn’t always imply handcuffs and whips, but rather what women call “men behaving like men.” For many of us, this simply means taking more initiative, making a woman feel irresistible, and ravishing her top to bottom. And of course, some of us do want a BDSM dom who will help us explore our submissive side.
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