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Finding Your Kinky Match Online

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With every new lover comes fascination. You wonder what kind of kinks they have, what sexual proclivities you share, and how you will find out. Will things come out in conversation or will one or both of you be brave enough to just suggest it in the throes of passion. Finding what someone is into can be fun and surprising…. and a great way to explore another person’s deeper self.

Lately I’ve been fondly reminiscing about the men I’ve dated who had foot fetishes. One guy just wanted to massage my tootsies forever. How I long for that now. Unfortunately, his personality left something to be desired. If a man has a foot fetish, you’ll find out quickly as he will be want to compliment your feet and then offer to give you a foot rub.

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But what if you enjoy fisting, wearing a diaper, public humiliation. These aren’t as mainstream as a foot fetish, and it will likely take longer to meet someone who will indulge you.

That’s where niche dating sites come in. I recommend having a membership on a site like OKCupid, as well as one on a kink site like BDSMdate.com for when you want to be very open about your sexual desires, without worrying about being judged. A site like this is for like-minded folk who are open to a wide varitey of fetishes and fantasies.

You’ll be able to create a BDSM profile that will help you find that kinky match with someone in your area. I’m looking for someone to worship my feet right now, and I’ve already begun a dialogue with two men. It’s that easy.

Where do you go to find your kinky match? Care to share your fetish?

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  1. Michael

    August 20, 2015 at 1:06 pm

    BDSMdate is looking like a pretty nice site. I’ve just created an account on it, and I can tell it looks really interesting. So thanks for your post 🙂

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