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I was having coffee with a friend of mine the other day and talking about the kink community. I told her I wasn’t having any luck meeting kinky women. She said I needed to use niche dating sites instead of mainstream ones.

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She thought that I needed to meet more kinky people, and that was the place to go. I admit, it was easier to write an honest profile about my fantasies where I was surrounded by other freaks.

In the past, my friend and I would get together and browse through the profiles on my old site. The women were mostly vanilla (or so it seemed from their profiles). There were a lot of ladies who thought they were somehow living on the edge because they had a few sailor tattoos, and a piercing or two. There seemed to be some gentrification of kink going on.

I thought, where are the profiles for people who want jumper cables attached to their nipples while a greased honey ham is being pushed up their ass? Okay, not that extreme, but you know what I mean.

Now I’m on sites like Findafemdom.com where people are way more kinky than me. It’s a real eye opener. Even though there are many fetishes that I would never try, it’s fun to read and learn about them.

Vore Fetish

People fantasize about being swallowed whole by another creature, and yet surviving inside this other creature’s body. I don’t pretend to understand this, even if its roots go back at least as far as the Old Testament. Most people just get off on seeing photos and drawings of this, as it is difficult to actually be swallowed by something and live.

Quicksand Fetish

This might be psychologically related to the vore fetish, in the sense that the idea of being swallowed whole is still there. Essentially this goes back to the days of damsels needing to be rescued in the nick of time. You can tie a lady up before she goes into the dangerous mud if you want to offer an extra strong possibility of accidental death… which I don’t recommend!

Mucophilia

This is a fascination with consuming other people’s mucus and snot? I refuse to type any more about this subject, but if you’re getting turned on, go for it. I always say to each his and her own when it comes to kinky activities.

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