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4 Reasons Women Love Fifty Shades of Grey

If you don’t see Fifty Shades of Grey by E.L. James on your lover’s bookshelf, chances are its hiding in a drawer by her bed or behind the laundry basket in the closet! The book sold over 125 million copies and has been translated into more than fifty languages.

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Critics say the book glorifies abusive relationships while others, including fans, find the text cringeworthy and facile. So why on earth do women love Fifty Shades of Grey?

1. The Commitment Is Key

For some of you dudes, commitment can feel like being strangled… and not in a good way! And for some women, variety is the spice of life.

But few would deny that the sexiest thing in the world is being totally wanted. To consume another so completely that no one else exists. To never have to wonder that your partner may need anything else.

Men and women are wired very differently in body and in psychology. For a woman, sexual liberation often comes from total security.

The biggest critics of the Fifty Shades industry include fetish folks who say the kink in these books is “lite” or “artificial.” They feel encroached on by fakers, by sexual conservatives who are merely dabbling, and find the scenarios unrealistic.

This is true, but only to a point. We are what we are, but millions of women around the world respond best sexually to this very kind of possession. Some women only feel safe exploring the limits of their sexuality and can only permit every possibility in the secure confines of the committed relationship.

That’s okay. Fifty Shades is a fantasy. Some of us share it, some don’t, but millions of women out there find the most liberating freedom in the idea of The One.

2. Monogamy Strikes a Cord

A different shade, if you will, of the first reason.

It might be unrealistic. It might be a dream. It might not be our only dream, but to be possessed by one man who never thinks about another woman is hot as hell.

Even the most saintly men, the most unlikely suspects, are thinking of every other girl on the block. 

Even the most secure woman in the world sometimes dreams of being the one and only. Just as every one-woman man or monogamous virgin bride has fantasized about everyone else, so has every poly, kinky, orgy-loving slut like me fantasized about the man who wants only me to fulfill in every way always.

3. Women Are all Kinky

No, not every woman wants to be tied up and spanked, choked or blindfolded. We don’t all want rubber or leather or PVC. We don’t all want chains and harnesses, and we are not all voyeurs or exhibitionists. Kink is a lot of things to different people, and it’s different strokes for all of us.

But nature did give every single one of us a dark streak. It may turn up in fifty different ways, but we all possess it. We are all animals, and nature can be as ruthless and savage as it is beautiful.

4. Christian Grey Possesses ALL the Qualities Women Want

Here is a man who is take-charge masculine, physically attractive, powerful, strong-minded, direct, honest, filthy rich, gorgeous, attentive and affectionate. He doesn’t have to be reminded to show his desire. He’s sensitive, caring, and thinks about her and only her every second of every day.

There is no such man.

No human being can possess every quality we dream about. We go crazy for Christian Grey because he doesn’t exist... and that’s good news for you!

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