Have you ever fantasized about sucking your own dick? Have you tried doing it? Does the idea of autofellatio make you hard… or wet?
What Is Autofellatio?
Autofellatio is a word combining “auto” or “self” and “fellatio” meaning licking and sucking cock. Basically, it means giving yourself head.
Someone with an autofellatio kink or an autofellatio fetish derives sexual arousal and pleasure from the idea of or actually sucking their own cock, or from the idea of someone else sucking their own dick.
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A little is known about the autofellatio kink, but the tricky nature of the act of autofellatio itself makes it difficult to know how many are into it and how it would play out for them. There’s also the secrecy or embarrassment that some guys might feel admitting that the idea excites them, or how much.
From anecdotal insights, talking with those who are open about autofellatio, and references in popular culture, it is safe to say that autofellatio is a mostly male kink, though some women enjoy the idea of a man performing autofellatio, and some transgender or nonbinary people also fantasize about autofellatio.
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Is Autofellatio Gay?
It makes sense that autofellatio is most commonly a kink for men, and that many gay men are excited by the idea of sucking dick and seeing someone suck their own cock. But autofellatio is also something commonly fantasized about by just about every man at some point, and only a small fraction of men are gay.
Autofellatio is no more gay than masturbation is. It is essentially a form of masturbation. Men masturbate in many different ways, by hand being the most common, but autofellatio is another, and fucking a pillow, sex toy, stuffed animal, or other pliable object are even more ways men masturbate.
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While nearly every guy has imagined autofellatio and maybe tried performing autofellatio, most of those guys don’t have an autofellatio kink. Among those who do have a fetish for autofellatio, some are gay and most are not.
Again, most women can’t perform autofellatio on themselves, but there are some who are intensely aroused by the idea of it or by watching a partner or porn performing autofellatio.
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Is Autofellatio Actually Possible?
Yes, autofellatio is possible. But it is only possible for a small percentage of dudes. For the vast majority of men, autofellatio is a physical impossibility.
A man must be extremely flexible and be able to perform an intense front bend. His cock must be, at the same time, quite long. There are approximately one percent of guys who can reach their cock with their mouth or tongue.
But even for this lucky few, it would only be a technical reach. To actually fellate the dick requires an even deeper bend. Only a couple men out of a thousand are capable of this. Unfortunately, autofellatio for almost everyone is a fantasy and not a reality.
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You can improve your chances of satisfying your autofellatio kink for real by working on your flexibility and stretching. Yoga and gymnastics or sports like ballet and ice skating may greatly increase your flexibility.
But even extremely flexible men are usually unable to reach their penis. It is simply not the way we are set up. And even if your cock is quite long and you are flexible, the length of your torso and neck may not work in your favor. You may get closer to autofellatio or you may get to lick the tip or head and still not be able to get further.
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Autofellatio Positions
There are two main positions that could work for autofellatio, if it works at all.
Sitting and bending forward in an intense curl is one.
The second is laying down and rolling the legs backward so the cock is hanging towards the mouth.
Autofellatio in Culture
There are a few places where the idea of autofellatio shows up in culture.
One is porn, another is popular culture like cinema or television, and another is in mythology.
There is porn for every taste and possible experience, so you’ll find autofellatio porn. Since most porn actors or amateurs cannot perform autofellatio, available videos tend to feature a few performers. There are niche autofellatio porn preferences, too, such as transgender women with penises who can suck them.
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Movies or TV shows that address autofellatio are not uncommon, but most of them are joking around or making fun of men who want to suck their own cocks. For example, Saturday Night Live once featured a skit where Will Ferrell joined a yoga class in hopes of becoming capable of autofellatio.
Finally, autofellatio is literally the food of the gods, and Egyptology studies show some ancient papyrus manuscripts that reference the sun god Ra creating other gods by sucking himself off and fertilizing the ground with his semen.
5 Ways to Satisfy Your Autofellatio Kink
1. Watch Autofellatio Porn
The most accessible way to indulge your autofellatio kink is to enjoy porn featuring those for whom it is possible. You can find lots of options for autofellatio specialties in porn.
2. Share Your Autofellatio Fantasies
Like many difficult or impossible fantasies, from macrophilia to sex with aliens, an autofellatio kink may be limited to your imagination. You can jerk off alone with the hot desires in your mind, or you can share them with your partner.
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3. Autofellatio Roleplay and Dirty Talk
A lot of sex is in our imagination and fantasies. If sucking your dick is not possible, as it is impossible for the vast majority of men, then play out your autofellatio fetish through roleplay and talking dirty and self sucking.
Our pleasure centers and our minds can hardly tell the different between real life and what we are imagining, so enjoy the experience of make believe.
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4. Autofellatio Erotica
Similarly, you can read or read to each other erotic fantasies about autofellatio. Conjuring the scenes and pretending it’s possible are wonderful through words, where imagination has no limit.
5. Autofellatio Hentai
Another place to enjoy your autofellatio fetish is in dirty manga or erotic anime. Hentai is the common term for Japanese graphic illustrations that are erotic, and in hentai the autofellatio kink is a common theme.
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6. Do Your Stretches
Don’t have any illusions about making the impossible possible, but if you think you’re almost there, you can do stretches to increase your flexibility and reach. Practicing yoga programs or stretching programs that dancers, ice skaters, or gymnasts use may make it possible to one day perform autofellatio.
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