What Is Pussy Eating?
Eating pussy refers to cunnilingus, oral sex performed on the vulva or vagina. This type of vaginal stimulation, with attention to the most sensitive part of the female genitalia—the clitoris—can be extremely arousing and lead to orgasm.
Pussy eating is often a part of sexual foreplay, before anal or vaginal intercourse, but can also serve as the main course.
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Not all pussy eaters are created equal. There are some guys who don’t go down at all, but there are many men who are masters at pussy eating and can never be satisfied.
Some men get as much pleasure as they give and worship at the gates of the pussy kingdom. Knowing how to eat pussy goes a long way with women, and the practice of becoming a pro is half the fun.
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14 Tips to Eat Pussy Like a Champ
1. Eat Her Pussy before You Come
Eating pussy really is the best way to arouse a woman, so it’s rare that a man is going to come, and then decide to go down.
Take your time, and let HER pleasure be the focus. Keep your mind and mouth on the prize that is her having an orgasm. Coming too far in advance of your partner is seen as selfish, especially to a new lover.
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2. Tease with Your Tongue
Everyone eats pussy a little differently, but everyone should use their tongue to its fullest potential. The tongue can probe and tickle and tease in a way that is soft and wet and delicate, unlike fingers that can feel big and rough. She can’t see what your tongue will do next, but she can feel it—let her feel it!
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3. Lick and Lap Her Pussy
The tongue is for more than probing and pulsing sensations, so let it explore what delights await between every woman’s legs. Lick up and down, back and forth, all around. Lap up that goodness, the warm and wet juices you are helping to create. Lick her outer and inner lips, all the folds of her beautiful pussy.
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4. Kiss and Suck Her Lips
Tender lips on lips can feel oh so good when she needs a break from the intense sensations you are providing, especially to her clitoris. You can alternate between peppering soft kisses all around to long slow open-mouth kisses. Suck gently on her clitoris if she can handle the intensity.
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5. Experiment with Pressure and Speed
You can’t just put your head between a woman’s legs and lick her like a lap dog. Pussy eating really is an art form. You want to experiment, and that is done with varying the pressure you are putting on the pussy with your lips and tongue and how fast or slow you are stimulating her. Mix it up, follow your intuition.
6. Involve Your Fingers
While fingering can be its own kink, fingers are necessary to make the most of your pussy eating experience. They can tickle and tease, but perhaps most importantly they can spread her lips for you to see more. Every vagina is different, so you can’t play from just one book. You may need a closer look to find the “man in the boat” or “magic button.”
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7. Eat Her Pussy with Rhythm
A true pleasure artist plays his pussy like a well-tuned instrument. He’s got his own rhythm and can forget everything beyond the legs that wrap around him. Not sure what I’m talking about? Play some sensual music that will help you find your flow. You don’t need to be a musician to follow a beat or two.
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8. Notice Her Body Language
Every man has to start somewhere when it comes to pussy eating. Either you’re an inexperienced guy all around when it comes to sex or you’ve let your sexual inhibitions keep you from devouring a pussy or two or twenty. The best way to boost your pussy-eating confidence is to follow her lead—her body language.
When she arches into you, it usually means you’re onto something good, that she is enjoying what you are doing at that exact moment. Follow her pleasurable sighs and moans. A sexually confident woman will sometimes tell you what she wants you to do. If you’re really feeling lost, you can always ask.
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9. Eat Pussy with Her Panties On
A lot of pussy-eating afficionados love to eat a woman out without taking off her panties. It’s sexy as hell to make out while you are both half-clothed, and all you have to do is pull her panties to the side of her luscious lips for easy access. There’s something about damp panties that makes most men hard, so try this the next time you want to get your P-kink on.
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10. Eat Her Out in Public
This can be a bit tricky, as you’re not going to eat pussy just any old place in public. Where you choose will depend on your sense of adventure and how much the threat of being caught turns you on. Some ideal places for eating pussy in public include secluded beaches, nature trails, parking garages, rooftop terraces, and club washrooms.
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11. Eat while She Rides Your Face
Most cunnilingus takes place with a woman lying leisurely on her back, but there are other pussy-eating positions that are just as satisfying, and some even more so. A woman may want to kneel over your face to smother you in her juices.
Facesitting is a kink that many femdoms enjoy with a submissive man. She is in full control and can can dip up and down to let you catch your breath between delectable servings.
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12. Kneel and Eat Her Pussy
Another submissive pose a man can take is on his knees before his queen. Most women love to serve up their pussy in this position as a way to turn the tables on the classic blowjob scene in porn.
She can pull your head into her pussy, burying your nose in her lips for a good sniff of her scent. Let her handcuff your hands behind your back if you want to ratchet up the arousal factor on both sides.
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13. Eat in the 69 Sex Position
Why not set a table for two? There’s no reason why you can’t both enjoy the pleasures of oral sex at the same time.
It can be a challenge to give oral pleasure at the same time as receiving, as you really need to focus. But you’ll be so in tune with your partner’s body that you may even be able to experience simultaneous orgasms.
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14. Add a Dildo or Vibrator
If eating pussy isn’t stimulating enough with all these tips and techniques, you can add a toy or two to push her right over the edge. When she is begging for more, use a vibrator to stimulate her clit or a dildo to provide penetration, without taking your mouth off of her.
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