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How to Get Kinky through Video Chat

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What can you do if you happen to be in a video chat with somebody, and you want to escalate the situation? This is the sort of fun we like to have here in the modern era, now that it’s not always easy to meet in person.

How to Get Kinky with Video Chat

Keep expectations low, but your sense of adventure high.

I was having a video chat with my friend the other day. We used to date, but we have been apart for a while. Still, there’s a certain kind of closeness that remains there. Honestly, we were just chatting about her garden and what she was up to in life. She confided in me that she’d been feeling lonesome and missing human companionship.

We started joking about cam hookups, like those found at these kinky dating sites, and what they were all about. I admit that I coaxed her a little. I said salacious things, and I could see that she was starting to warm under her sweaters a little to my suggestions.

Pay close attention to verbal cues and body language.

She asked whether I was getting excited under my blankets, and I told her I was. Scandalous! I asked her what her hands were doing off camera, curving down out of the screen and seeming to aim towards the join in her stockings. Before you know it, we acknowledged that we were using each other’s energy to help ourselves along the way.

She was stroking herself, tossing her head back and moaning as I watched. I was stroking too, remembering what it was like to look down on her faces as I made love to her.

Enjoy video hookups, but don’t give them too much weight.

It’s not that we were really talking about reconciliation. I’m pretty sure she has a new lover. I’m pretty sure I have a new lover too. Our new lovers are our own business. But in the middle of the night, when nobody is looking, it isn’t such a bad thing for two old friends to let their hormones take them over the rainbow.

Be brave with someone you already trust.

If you trust somebody, you can get as kinky as you like in front of the camera. A little mutual masturbation doesn’t seem too crazy in the general scheme of kinky things. Not when flogging with barbed whips, and fucking each other in diaper-wearing bear costumes exists. Not while people are on camera, daring each other to put increasingly large toys in their assholes. Not while women are giving men hand jobs while whispering the filthiest fantasies into their ears.

All these things are real, but it’s a matter of scale. Micro-cheating and experimentation can be just kinky enough for a lonely night when the entire world seems to be hibernating, and we are far, far away from the people we love. Be safe out there, and whatever you do, have fun!

Read: Talking Dirty and Sharing Fantasies

Do you have any recent kinky video-chat experiences? Share in the comments!

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3 months ago

I love sexy CDs I’d want a serious relationship

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