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Role Playing Ideas to Explore as a Couple

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If you feel like your love life has just turned into the same old dull routine—doors locked, lights out, in the missionary position—then maybe role playing is for you.

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Role plays are way to spice up your relationship by pretending to be someone you’re not. This allows you to shift the power dynamic safely. After all, you aren’t really being submissive or dominant all of a sudden, you’re just acting the part. You’re not actually a kinky nymphomaniac, you’re simply getting into character (or maybe you are!)

The most simple role play is to agree to meet in public, but when you are in public, approach each other as though you were strangers. It’s a game of pick-up all over again. Can you seduce somebody who is allowing themselves the freedom to be flirty and free again? Will you be shot down by your own partner? Will either of you lie about what you do to impress the other? How far will the game go?

You might begin living two entirely different lives. Your normal life, and then your new role playing life, in which the two of you meet for clandestine sex in a downtown motel, pretending your “real partners” have no idea what’s going on.

There are so many roles to explore—headmaster and naughty schoolgirl, policeman and the woman trying to get out of a ticket, spy who has been captured and needs to be interrogated—that the possibilities are endless.

If one of you is a natural exhibitionist, there are many ways to incorporate this kink into role playing. One of you watches the other, without being seen. What will the performer do in order to entice the dirty pair of eyes lurking in the cupboard, under the bed, behind the window out in the dark? It could be as simple as changing or taking a shower. It could be as complex as fucking a stranger while your lover watches, taking the kink into the realm of cuckoldry.

One partner could even follow the other in public. Stalk them, film them, even act out a rape fantasy. This is only for couples who have a solid foundation of trust and have discussed boundaries and limits, not for a hookup with someone you’ve just met online. Also, there are laws against indecent exposure and sex in public, so be sure to know what your state or provincial laws are, and don’t get caught!

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