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Sensory Deprivation Play for Couples

Man on Top of Blindfolded Woman

I’ve written a few articles at Kink Lovers about sensory play because not only do I think it’s a great intro into BDSM, but also because it’s my favorite way to explore secret pleasures with a lover.

Sensation Play Ideas

Sensory deprivation will heighten and enhance your experience. The most common forms of this are the restrictions of sight and sound.

You can use a blindfold, mask, or hood to take away your partner’s sense of sight. These can be found at our online Kink Lovers store. If you’re not ready to add to your toy box, just have a look around the house… ties, sleep masks, and hats will do in a pinch. Not being able to see what your lover is about to do builds so much anticipation that you may get wet or hard before anything actually happens!

Blindfolds, Hoods, and Masks, Oh My!

To restrict your lover’s ability to talk, you can use a sexy ball-gag, bondage tape, or a tie of your own fashioning. Just keep in mind you won’t have access to their mouth for inserting things like fingers or a hard cock. Remember to have a “safe signal” if you need to stop the play for whatever reason.

To cut off a sub’s listening abilities, you can use ear plugs. You can also use ear buds or earphones if you want to inject a little atmospheric music into your play.

When we think of sensory play, we often think of the different sensations of touch, but you may want to take away the sense of touch entirely. This isn’t usually a beginner’s choice and involves a lot more trust. Experienced kinksters will use anything from boxes, vacuum sealing to sleep sacks. Mummification is one unique fetish associated to this type of deprivation.

Bondage goes hand in hand with sensory play and really cranks things up a notch. If you haven’t been tied up or tied a special friend up, check out Bondage for Beginners – The 3 Things You Need to Know.

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