The forced orgasm is exactly what it sounds like: being forced to have an orgasm. It is usually but not always part of BDSM play, and means giving up control of your own orgasm to your partner and often to a vibrating device such as a magic wand or dildo.
Who would enjoy a forced orgasm?
Male, female, and non-binary bodies can all experience the helpless heaven and hell of forced orgasm.
The submissive partner tries to delay or prevent climaxing while his or her partner, or a mechanical device, stimulates the genitals and other erotic zones.
Usually, forced orgasm play extends to multiple orgasms for women. Some men can have multiple orgasms too, although it might require time between them.
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What should I consider before attempting a forced orgasm?
Forced orgasms can be painful, as the body is overstimulated and exhausted. The contrasting pleasure and pain are part of the erotic thrill for many kinky lovers.
You’ll want to talk with your partner about boundaries and consent before exploring the thrills of forced orgasm. Have a safe word and respect each other’s limits, as always. Once you’ve discussed your unique desires, expectations, fantasies, and fears, forced orgasm play can take you beyond what you’ve ever experienced before.
BDSM Ideas for Forced Orgasm Play
Obey Your Mistress
If you’re the submissive and she’s dominant, it’s up to her how she wants to make you get off. She might use her hand, mouth, body, or toys.
Bondage and Force Orgasms
A pair of handcuffs works as nicely as elaborate rope fetishes. You can use belts, sheets, latex, silk scarves, or anything else you’re into. Restraint is an essential aspect of forced orgasm for many and might be just one way to experiencing bondage, with orgasm denial and edging as other options.
Forced Masturbation
Bondage and restraint are not always part of forced orgasm. She can assert her control over your orgasm by ordering you to masturbate at the pace she desires, and vice versa. It’s very exciting for both lovers to command a partner’s personal pleasure, and a simultaneous orgasm is one goal to aim for.
Take It to the Limit with Toys
Forced orgasm uses the same variety of sex toys you enjoy at any time, however the dominant partner wants to fuck or stimulate his or her lover. This includes dildos, nipple clamps, whips, paddles, vibrators, and more.
One toy that is frequently used in forced orgasm BDSM is the fuck saw, a hand-held mechanical device that penetrates the ass or pussy hard. This toy concept has been adapted by many clever kinksters to operate automatically. (Always supervise device use of this sort to avoid injury.)
There are wearable vibrators that work perfectly for forced orgasm play, although the large classic vibrating wand is the most popular toy because it is so powerful.
Leave Her Hanging with Orgasm Denial
Forced orgasm play can be a lot like orgasm denial play, with you leaving the room to do dishes or make some phone calls while she is helplessly restrained. In orgasm denial, of course, she’s abandoned at the brink of wanting fulfillment.
With forced orgasm, you might have a dildo stuffed inside her worn-out pussy and a vibrator positioned against her clitoris. She can’t escape the stimulation or the resulting orgasms. Make this way to play safer by using a baby monitor, so that you’ll hear her if she needs a break.
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