Threesome lovers sometimes refer to the MFM dual penetration act as a sexual spit roast. Learn all about spit roasting and get ideas for spit roast positions to try out.
What Is a Sexual Spit Roast?
A sexual spit roast is when one partner of three is penetrated by two partners, one from each side. Spit roasting refers to simultaneous oral and vaginal penetration, or simultaneous anal and vaginal penetration.
The spit roast usually refers to two men on one woman—the MFM threesome tradition. However, it can refer to a MMM threeway or any other combination as well, using strap-on dildos and a bit of imagination.
The classic threesome sandwich is called spit roast after the ancient practice of pork (or other whole animal) barbecue, because the poles go into the animal from both sides as it’s roasted over the fire pit.
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Is a Spit Roast Degradation or Humiliation?
Yes and no. The spit roast happens all the time without calling it that—essentially it’s the MFM sandwich, and anytime two men penetrate a woman during a threeway. This can be as sweet and loving as any other sex act. It can also be the queen or domme commanding the shots and requiring double service.
But generally speaking, the name “spit roasting” has a harsh sound because it refers to a defenseless creature being taken over the fire. The connotations are often that she is a “piece of meat.” So spit roasting can be incredibly exciting for partners into humiliation, BDSM, and degradation kink.
What’s In It for Men?
Spit roasting is thrilling to some guys for the rush of power and dominance.
The spit-roast threesome can be exciting because it implies her desire is so intense that it requires multiple men at once to satisfy.
It can also be exciting because of the taboo of playing with another male in an MFM threesome.
It’s arousing for him because he gets to watch her get penetrated and participate at the same time.
It’s porny, rockstar kind of sex, so that is a big turn-on because it isn’t your average day-to-day sex.
Plus, it’s a threesome, regardless of what act is underway. Threesomes are the most common sexual fantasy going, and hooking up with other lovers into it is an ace in the hole. Or aces in the holes, as it were.
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What’s In It for the Woman?
Women fantasize about threesomes too. Any woman who wants a threesome will find an endless stream of men begging to accommodate—and I can tell you from personal experience that most men want FFM threeways. I love making love to women, and it’s a sweet thrill that can turn a man on intensely. But it’s much more difficult to find guys willing to do the MMF! So that’s one major thrill in spit-roasting sex for me.
Women may also find it incredibly arousing to be the focus of attention from two men at once. Turning two men on is even more intense than turning one man on.
We like the sensation of being filled, so a spit roast amplifies that physically and psychologically.
Actively participating in oral sex while being vaginally penetrated is also very exciting.
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Spit Roast Domination or Submission
Some women find dominating in this way very exciting. The concept of “topping from below” can be at play here—it seems as if she is the object—a piece of meat—but she is commanding all the attention and calling the shots, and being fucked to the extent of her sexual satisfaction.
Other women find spit roasting a more submissive thrill. Being thrown around and fucked roughly by two guys at the same time is incredible for a love slave.
It’s also visually exciting for her. She gets to see all kinds of action, moving parts, and twice as many cocks. I mean, what’s not to love?
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6 Spit Roast Sex Positions
Spit roasting sounds like an easy assemble, but threesome positions get complicated quickly with so many arms and legs everywhere! It can take some practice and patience to make it work and synchronize rhythms.
1. Doggy Style with Dog Walkers
The classic MFM spit-roast sex position has her on all fours in doggy position, with her mouth and pussy full of cock at both ends.
Whether this works well or not depends on how tall everyone is. Modify with one or both guys kneeling, pillows or bolstering platforms, or anything else that will bring this functional position to practicality.
2. The Fire Pit
Using the bed for the spit-roast threesome position can be tricky because it really does end up a sandwich, and leverage for motion can be impossible.
But imagine that the bed is the fire pit and the guys are the poles, standing on either side. If she has a single bed or cot this works wonders, but even a larger bed can work if she positions herself in a corner and you guys stand at the angles.
It might take a bit of play to work out. Use a massage table as well if there is one available—a good height and slim enough to serve!
3. The Jump Rope
If she’s tiny and you’re a big strong man, simply hold her up like a skipping rope and get to it.
4. The Kitchen Sink
For oral on one guy, hop up on the kitchen counter while she leans face in and sucks you dry. The other man gets behind her. Two standing, one sitting, and everyone using the counter for leverage or stability.
5. The Sofa Salsa
One dude can perch on the back of the sofa, with his legs spread. She uses the seat section to prop herself and blow him, ass in the air. The other dude stands behind her on the floor.
6. The Ham Sandwich
The biggest guy lays on his back, and she rides reverse cowgirl, easing her ass down on his shaft, then straightens out, with legs spread, to receive cock in pussy from sandwich top.
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