CBT Kink: What is BDSM Cock and Ball Torture?
To many, CBT stands for cognitive behavioral therapy. Oops, not in the BDSM community!
Read on to learn about cock and ball torture and different kinds of CBT BDSM play.
Want to find play partners who share your CBT kink? I have some tips for you at the end of the article.
What is Cock and Ball Torture?
“Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, squeezing, ball-busting, genital flogging, urethral play, tickle torture, erotic electrostimulation or even kicking. The recipient of such activities may receive direct physical pleasure via masochism, or emotional pleasure through knowledge that the play is pleasing to a sadistic dominant.” – Wikipedia
So what exactly can a CBT kink involve? More than you think.
6 Cock and Ball Torture Methods
1. Ball Busting
This includes direct contact to the testicles from kicking, kneeing, punching, or squeezing. In Japan they call it Tamakeri (ball kicking) and it has a huge community.
Read: Tools and Tips for Testicle Torture
2. Ball Stretching
A stretcher will lengthen the scrotum, while pulling the testicles down. If the stretcher is too tight there is a chance that circulation can be cut off. There are various stretcher sizes and they can be made of leather or steel.
3. Ball Crushing
The testicles are places within a metal or plastic crushing device that is tightened with screws to slowly crush the balls.
Read: Crush Fetish: All About Crushing Kinks
4. Parachuting
A small collar (parachute), encasing the scrotum, is secured around the scrotum before weights are attached. A man can enjoy the constant sensation of being dragged down as well as its squeezing effect.
5. Humbler
This is a BDSM restraint used on a submissive male. A cuff device clamps around the base of the scrotum and is attached to a bar that is situated behind his thighs just below the buttocks. The man is forced to keep his legs bent as any movement will pull on his constricted scrotum, causing mild to severe pain.
6. Cock Rings
Cock rings are not always used for BDSM torture, but they can be.
This ring-shaped sex toy is secured round the scrotum between the body and the testicles. There may be two adjoining rings/cuffs—one for the base of the penis and one for the scrotum. Some also come with padlocks that can be part of a slave/owner relationship.
Stretching that occurs during sexual intercourse can vary from enjoyable to painful depending on the constriction.
For more ways to play with CBT kink, read 3 Ideas for Cock and Ball Torture Roleplay
Cock and Ball Torture Safety
Like the fetish name says, this is a form of torture, so like many BDSM activities, safety must be a priority.
Blocking circulations and edemas are of particular concern when CBT is practiced. As well as wrapping or tying of the testicles. Scratches, bruises, and cuts are to be expected, but ruptures and severe swelling can happen and do need immediate medical attention. Play safe!
Read: BDSM Education: How to Learn BDSM Online
How to Find Cock and Ball Torture
Curious about how to meet a woman interested in some CBT BDSM?
There are BDSM dating sites where you can meet local dominant women open to CBT kink and other fetishes. We’ve put them together for our readers here:
In addition to those options for cock and ball torture hookups, I can also recommend CBTDating.com.
What do you think about the CBT kink? Is cock and ball torture for you?
