Jizz, spunk, seed, splooge, load—call it what you like. Some gals, and guys, have a kink for the stuff. Whether you have a bonafide cum fetish, or are just open to new ways to experience and share sex, here are kinks and play suggestions for fun with cum.
7 Ways to Play with Your Cum Fetish
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1. Fluid Bonding
Safe sex to avoid disease and pregnancy means we use condoms to separate us from each other’s fluids. But for the full intimacy and experience of exchanging our essential essences, some polyamorous and kinky people have a relationship where fluid bonding is central.
A couple may employ safe sex with all of their partners except a primary partner, for example.
Read: Fluid Bonding in Kink Relationships
2. Cream Pie
Judging from the proliferation of this category of porn, a lot of guys love seeing cum inside a pussy. Makes sense, since that’s kind of the aim of the game at its bare bones.
I’m not sure if this was always the turn on that it is now, but ejaculation has become almost a taboo kink with sexual liberation. Men and women are free to have sex outside of monogamy or procreation, but we do everything in our power to keep the cum away from the vagina to avoid STIs and unplanned pregnancy.
And anything taboo becomes the hottest thing on earth, and often a fetish in it’s own right.
3. Felching
This is an ugly word for what is really an extremely intimate cum play practice. A man ejaculates inside his partner’s pussy or ass, then performs oral sex and consumes his own cum.
4. Spit or Swallow
Some of us adore gobbling it up after a delicious blowjob, some discreetly spit it out, and some enjoy the sensation of a mouthful dripping down your cock and the sides of our mouth. A juicy blowjob is hot if not particularly kinky.
Take your semen fetish up a notch by kissing her deeply after you’ve emptied your load into her mouth.
Read: Cum Tasting Tips
5. Bukkake
Since I’m not one of those sought after women with a cum fetish, I surprised myself on a few occasions by unexpectedly enjoying bukkake scenes. I do enjoy group sex, and even though bukkake can be seen or experienced as degrading cum play, I felt an arousal and elation at my own power to turn on so many men at once.
Bukkake is basically a circle jerk with a receptive target. It’s a Japanese word that means “to get wet” or “to splash” and is actually a noodle dish—now it’s a porn genre.
Read: Creative Cumshot Ideas
6. Mushy Biscuit
Ever wonder why a band would call themselves Limp Bizkit? Now you’ll wonder even more.
The mushy, soggy, or limp biscuit is a kind of lesser bukkake, you might say, in which the target of the cum shower is a cookie. The last man to squirt has to eat the cookie.
It’s a variant on the circle jerk, with the aim of playfully humiliating the last man standing.
Read: How to Produce More Cum
7. Cum Collecting
I would have thought this was an urban legend, until I saw it with my own eyes. I emerged from a quick shower once to find my hookup draining the tossed condom into a little canister that was already half full.
I have to admit, the idea of hoarding your cum for a thrill kind of makes me sick to my stomach, so I never did get together with him again. I can tolerate and even enjoy a fresh wad in the right circumstances, but yesterday’s spunk is rotten funk.
I’m not sure if this is a real cum kink, or if it’s a crossover of extreme hoarding into the sex zone, or both.
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