Breasts—what’s not to love? Twin flames of fleshy pudding with a cherry-like nipple on top.
Whether tiny, firm and perky, or pendulous with a deep cleft taunting under a low-cut blouse, many men around the world agree, breasts are the most beautiful sight.
Breast Fetishism
Love of breasts is so commonplace, so widespread that it hardly qualifies as a kink or fetish, right? Women love breasts, too, and not just those of us who swing both ways. And gay men love them so much they sometimes wear them!
To say someone is a “breast man” is almost redundant. Some men have a stronger attraction to breasts than other men, but you would be hard pressed to find a man for whom breasts “do nothing.” Even if he swings the other way!
Seeing breasts as sexually attractive or sexual is often seen as a Western construct, with exemplary fingers pointed at cultures who don’t cover up women’s breasts, or who nurse babies openly. Supposedly those breathless over breasts are less evolved or somehow wrong—these udders are nursing bottles, and nothing more. Other mammals don’t sexualize these milk fountains, so why should we?
I for one don’t want these girls relegated to baby bottles only. It’s extremely exciting to hide, reveal, touch and be touched on my breasts and nipples!
Read: 5 Breast Foreplay Ideas to Try
It may be true that some cultures aren’t as excited as we are by boobs—although many more are—but other cultures find the neck or the foot or other body parts made for other purposes sexy, and they aren’t wrong, are they? Plus, humans are very imaginative and playful—you could argue that other mammals aren’t “into” dressing up, using toys, or electronic stimulation, but does that mean that we shouldn’t be?
Breasts bring amazing pleasure to millions around the world. Breast love is so common that most of us don’t think of it as kinky at all. However, there are lots of kinks and fetishes that star the breast!
9 Types of Breast Kinks
1. Breast Partialism
Breasts in and of themselves aren’t “technically” a fetish unless the interested party is interested to the exclusion of the rest of the stimuli. If a man can’t be aroused by anything else then it could qualify as a form of partialism.
Such a breast fetish could be called mazophilia although you’ll seldom hear this term. Usually it will be referred to as “breast partialism.”
2. Wet T-Shirt Contest
What’s hotter than a woman in a bikini, nearly showing all? A woman with a t-shirt on, soaked by sea, rain, or a hose.
Millions flock to American spring break parties to see girls in wet t-shirts. It can be with bikini, bra, or bare, but the idea of the wet shirt clinging to her mammaries and revealing everything is super hot.
3. Bakunyū
This term references a form of Japanese pornography—anime or manga featuring “enormous breasts,” the meaning of the word.
We’re talking REALLY big boobs—to qualify as bakunyū, they have to be larger than G75!
Read: Top 10 Bakunyū Characters in Anime
4. Erotic Dancing
Stripping, belly dancing, burlesque, and many other cultural variations and expressions of erotic dance often focus on breasts.
Part of this kink may also feature on what’s dressing the boobs up, whether that’s a corset underneath bare breasts or pasties with tassels over the nipples.
5. Breast Bondage
BDSM can focus on the breasts and various acts and arts of restraint, including rope bondage that specializes in breast binding. Shibari, for example, a Japanese rope art, can focus on breast bondage with rope harnesses and binding.
Breast bondage can be an expression of submission or dominance as well as an aesthetic kink.
Read: Breast Bondage 101: Tit Bondage Types and Tips
6. Breast Torture
Breast torture can be a turn on for the dominant or for the recipient, or both. It can involve bondage, nipple pinching or nipple clamps, biting, spanking, hot wax, suction cups, cutting, and any variety of torture methods. It can be light or extreme.
Read: His and Her Guide to Nipple and Breast Torture
7. Breastfeeding Fetish
Some women have a thing for nursing a man, sometimes called adult nursing. More often, the man has a thing for breastfeeding. He may be turned on by the idea that she is pregnant with swollen breasts, by the nipples, by sucking, or by adult baby play.
Some guys seek out a nursing woman in order to really “feed.” He might enjoy his partner’s natural time nursing or seek to date women who are breastfeeding. Most of the time it is role play or play.
Read: My Adult Breastfeeding Fetish
8. Erotic Lactation
That brings us to erotic lactation, a massive thrill for many because it’s taboo and rare during sex. Milk is generally for babies, so sharing a sip can be profoundly intimate and memorable.
For those who have a kink for erotic lactation, whether as part of an adult baby fetish, a BDSM fetish, or just an insatiable thirst for milk, erotic lactation involves the pursuit of actual milk, not just role playing at breastfeeding or adult nursing.
Read: All About Adult Nursing Relationship (ANR)
It is a laborious process to bring a woman to lactation and more often than not, does not work out. But it is possible to produce milk without a recent pregnancy, and the process and training is part of the thrill.
9. Crossdressing
Lots of men with a boob fetish enjoy wearing the bra that holds these beauties. It’s very common for men to enjoy wearing women’s intimate clothing. Some guys will stuff the bra with socks or silicone inserts that mimic the look and feel of breasts.
It can be exciting to wear a bra under your business suit and hold that secret all day. Other crossdressing enthusiasts are more into exhibitionism and showing off their look to their lovers.
Read: 6 Kinky Breast Play Tips and Ideas
Are you a lover of breasts? What is your specific boob kink or fetish with breasts?
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