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How to Swap Cum: 8 Cum Swapping Ideas

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Curious about cum swapping? For those with various cum kinks, such as cum eating, cum tasting, bukkake, or gokkun, cum swapping can be a very arousing kink play.

What Is Cum Swapping?

Basically, cum swapping is exactly what it sounds like. You and your lovers swap cum.

Cum swapping usually refers to a male and female partner or two male partners swapping cum by mouth. There clearly has to be a penis involved to make the cum in the first place. Colloquially, the swap in cum swapping refers to her mouth passing your ejaculate back to you.

The easiest way for cum swapping to work is to ejaculate into her mouth and then French kiss, so she can swap the cum back to you.

However, as a kink or fetish, some cum swappers also swap cum by sucking or fucking her pussy when it’s full of cream pie. Sucking cum out of her ass is cum swapping but usually called “felching.” “Snowballing” is in group sex when the cum swapping takes place with numerous partners and becomes mixed with saliva along the way.

Read: 7 Ways to Enjoy Your Cum Fetish

Cum swapping is a high-risk kink during group sex or when it involves cum in the ass or vagina. Cum swapping by mouth risks disease transmission but not as high risk as pussy or ass. The cum swapping kink is low risk when STI-free monogamous couples do it by mouth.

How to Ask Her to Swap Cum with You

If the idea of cum swapping turns you on, you can ask your lover to play with you. Since bodily fluids are involved, you’ll need to have some kind of conversation or communication to be sure both parties consent. Make sure you’re STI-free to seal the deal.

Read: How to Talk about Your Kinks without Turning Her Off

The best approach is direct and candid. But saying, “Baby, I want to explore my cum swapping kink” may not be the first thing to say unless you already know she has a cum fetish and craves the stuff!

Instead, tell her how much it turns you on when she swallows or when you ejaculate on her, and explain that you want to try cleaning her up after or massaging each other with it. When she takes a mouthful and your cum is dripping from the corner of her lips, you can simply lean in and whisper “Let me taste that” before kissing her.

8 Cum Swapping Ideas to Try

1. Classic Cum Swap

The classic cum swapping technique is simply to swap cum through deep kissing. This usually happens after one or more males ejaculate in her mouth during fellatio. Instead of spitting or swallowing, lovers French kiss and exchange cum as well as saliva.

2. Cream Pie Eating

You can cum swap by licking your ejaculate (or a third party’s cum during a threesome) out of her pussy.

Read: How to Produce More Cum

3. Felching

Popularized in some fetish communities and guy-on-guy porn, felching can include using a straw or funnel to suck ejaculation out of one partner’s ass into the mouth. Usually, it includes deep kissing and licking of the anus, and can be any gender.

4. Snowballing

Snowballing is cum swapping by mouth during group sex, where the ejaculate “snowballs” with saliva and becomes a bigger, juicier wad with each kissing exchange. It can include multiple partners’ cum to swap, or one ejaculate at a time.

5. Bukkake

Bukkake is the practice of multiple men coming onto a woman, often the target inside the circular gathering of men. But who says you can’t add a little cum swapping when so much cum is involved!

Read: Bukkake Fetish: Do Women Like Bukkake?

6. Cum Massage

Revel and participate in your cum fetish by swapping cum through erotic cum massage. After you ejaculate on her breasts, buttocks, tummy, thighs, or pussy, you can touch, snuggle up, rub together, fuck again, and so on, swapping cum by skin.

7. Gokkun

Gokkun is a Japanese cum kink where a woman gulps back large quantities of cum. It’s not really cum swapping but a cum drinking kink.

Read: Gokkun: the Cum Drinking Kink from Japan

8. Cum Swapping Role Play

Cum swapping can be part of all kinds of kinks and fetishes, including BDSM play and dominance and submission, cuckolding and other humiliation, and much more. It can be part of any kink play and isn’t associated with any specific fetishes.

Role-playing can make cum swapping easier if one or both of you are not sure how to proceed or shy from the taboo of it. Role play hooker and john, thy neighbor’s wife, teacher and student, stepdaddy and daughter, and any other hot variation that turns you on.

What Makes Cum Swapping Sexy?

It’s very common for guys to be turned on by the idea of the cum shot, coming or ejaculating explosively. And the cream pie is a staple in porn—seeing your or someone else’s load dripping out of her pussy or butthole is hot.

Why is the white stuff such a turn-on? Cum swapping and other cum fetishes are primal triggers for sexual arousal for a few reasons.

One is probably fairly obvious—our species’ ferocious instinct is to procreate, and ejaculate contains the seeds you plant to help that happen. Since cum must usually occur for that process to get started, the idea of cum is innately arousing to many.

Read: 7 Ways to Enjoy Your Cum Fetish

Swapping cum, cream pies, cum eating, and other semen fetishes are also exciting because of the taboo. Taboo kinks always up the excitement factor in sex. The forbidden and dangerous and rare are especially arousing. Since cum in the age of condoms and not making babies is a more hidden part of sex than ever—sometimes treated like toxic waste because of its potential—cum kinks abound.

Cum is so rare in human sexual expression today that it is practically holy or sacred! Those who don’t use a condom and safely exchange bodily fluids are known as “fluid bonded” lovers. It isn’t a kink per se but a conviction that something is missing from casual sex or safe sex. Fluid bonded couples may not call themselves “cum swappers” but essentially they are convinced that swapping cum is the basis of natural, deep sexuality.

Read: Fluid Bonding in Kink Relationships

Do you have a cum swapping kink? How do you indulge?

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