Got a cunnilingus fetish? There’s a kink for that. In fact, there are several kinks that center around the vagina and offer new ways for oral sex lovers to expand their kinky play.
Dining at the Y, going down, muff diving, pearl diving, eating out, tossing her salad—there are endless slang euphemisms for oral sex.
Whatever you want to call it, cunnilingus, or using your mouth to pleasure a woman’s genitalia, is an incredibly erotic, sensual, and fulfilling act.
Cunnilingus is not in and of itself kinky: it is an essential, everyday part of sex for most couples, whether kinky or vanilla, heterosexual or lesbian.
But it can be part of your kink repertoire, too. Adding oral sex to any number of kinks is easy, and a number of fetishes involve pussy licking.
9 Kinks for Cunnilingus Lovers
Do you have a cunnilingus fetish? Consider the following kinks for pussy lovers that pair well with cunnilingus.
If you still need a play partner to indulge your passion, (what woman would refuse?), see our Kinky Dating Sites Guide.
1. Pussy Worship
Oral sex is obviously one of the best expressions of pussy worship or goddess worship.
Pussy worship is exactly what it sounds like. The vagina and vulva are considered the source of life and the center of sex, and the crown jewel of the queen of life.
Pussy worship involves hands, mouth, looking, touching, and fucking. In that respect, many men—and women— worship pussy every time we have sex. The added attention, reverence, and ritual makes it official.
Pussy worship can be part of dominance and submission, or it can be in any other context, too, not necessarily BDSM.
2. Panty Sniffing
A common and longstanding kink is huffing the scent of sweat and pheromones from a woman’s vaginal secretions in her underwear. Some guys like to lick or chew panties or even panty liners to get to the good stuff!
You’ve probably picked up her thong and inhaled at least once, but you can also ask a lover to wear her drawers for a few days extra and leave them with you. Some of you especially like to kiss and lick them in her absence.
Read: 4 Ways to Enjoy Your Used Panty Fetish
2. Submission
Her wish is your command. Lucky you if you are allowed to lick her!
Read: How to Be a Good Slave to a Domme
3. Threesomes or Group Scenes
Cunnilingus fetish is one big reason why many women love threesomes. It’s very erotic to make love to another woman, for women who are bisexual or just plain sexual. It’s so warm and sensual and it’s so empowering and exciting to give her so much pleasure or receive oral from another woman.
One thing I find particularly arousing during threesomes is receiving oral sex from both of you at once.
For help finding a threesome, read our guide to the Best Threesome Hookup Sites.
4. Voyeurism
Cunnilingus can be super exciting to watch for voyeurs! So many ladies love watching porn that shows close-ups of men licking pussies. It’s what we want!
5. Menophilia
Some guys have an out-and-out fetish for menstrual fluid. They call themselves bloodhounds.
Menophiles are aroused by menstrual blood, and many especially love the idea or taste of oral sex when she’s menstruating. While this is not everyone’s idea of dessert, bloodhounds say menstruation is an essential aspect of our sexual functioning and they see the blood as symbolic of life and sex.
Read: Menophilia: The Period Blood Fetish
6. Outdoor or Public Sex
Switch up the classic automobile ride and blowjob on the side road, and make HER the recipient of oral love!
Because oral for her is often considered “slow sex,” it’s not always on the menu for furtive outside encounters. But why not? You can find a picnic spot in a deserted woods, or make your way to the far end of a beach, or pick a remote hillside on the outskirts of your city.
Making love outdoors feels for some incredibly natural and meaningful. The sun’s rays or salty ocean breezes feel elemental and pleasurable.
For others, it’s simply a little amped up because of the risk of being discovered or having to scramble to cover up when you hear someone coming. The threat of danger can ratchet up the thrill for many of us.
Read: Best Places for Kinky Outdoor Sex
7. Golden Showers
It’s extremely common to experience arousal at the thought of or sight of urine or urinating. Some folks who are into the golden shower thing are even more excited by drinking or licking urine. It can also add something extra for those with cunnilingus fetish.
Asking her to release urine or pee while you’re going down on her can be very exciting for both of you. While I am not specifically aroused by piss play, the physical feeling of voiding while I’m being stimulated sexually is amazing.
So if she’s open minded, don’t hesitate to ask if she’ll let go while she’s spread wide taking your tongue and fingers.
Read: How to Enjoy the Golden Shower
8. G-spot sex
Fingering is essential to getting off G-spot style, for those women who enjoy G-spot stimulation or who ejaculate or squirt. But combining the finger techniques with your wide open mouth ramps things up for both of you.
Lots of guys love to be drenched—face and mouth—by her explosion.
9. Role Play
Make oral for her central to kinky role play games. She can play the MILF next door who initiates her pool guy into the ancient art of cunnilingus. Maybe she’s the lifeguard, and mouth to mouth leads to better things. What about a dominant nurse, or a pregnant goddess, or a demanding police woman with a get-out-of-jail-free card?
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