Are you fascinated by aliens? Do you fantasize about alien sex?
What Is Exophilia?
Exophilia is the desire to have sex with alien or extraterrestrial beings, or other non-human life forms such as robots or vampires.
The term “exophilia” came from the 2001 book Extraterrestrial Sex Fetish. Because exophilia originated in a literary work, it is not a paraphilia recognized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual.
Let’s have a closer look at exophilia—alien sex—as a fetish, what makes alien sex so hot, and the different ways people enjoy this kink.
What’s the Appeal of Alien Sex?
Humans want what they can’t have. That’s a very simple truth that is rooted in the alien sex fetish.
People have been and always will be fascinated by life forms existing beyond earth. From movies to TV to books, aliens are a hot topic. There is always more to know, envision, and fantasize about, which means there are no boundaries or rules or an end to the possibilities of what alien sex might look like.
Some people with this fetish imagine alien sex to be far superior to human sex, and they want to know what that would feel like. We all want to be taken to new sexual heights, right?
Aliens and sex is a potent combination full of mystery and allure. It is one of many impossible kinks that allow the imagination to run wild and use creative ways to fulfill the fetishists’ fantasies.
Alien sex is considered a supernatural kink. Fetishists may study aliens, reading everything they can get their hands on, or they may have a fixation on a specific alien look or portrayal that they saw or read about in a favorite medium.
Read: Supernatural Fetishes and Fantasies
8 Alien Kinks of Exophiles
1. Alien Sex Roleplay
Alien sex roleplaying may be the number one way that exophiles get off on their kink because alien sex can’t happen for real, at least not yet or that has been proven.
Abductions, testing, probing, bondage, sensory deprivation all lend themselves to alien sex role plays. Many fetishists will want to play themselves and have a kinky partner play the alien, which means sharing one’s fantasy.
Because of limited knowledge of alien behavior, anything can be role played in the alien sexverse. Act out your first meet-cute alien encounter tonight!
Read: Sexual Roleplay: A Guide for Roleplay Beginners
2. Alien Impregnation (with Ovipositor)
Alien sex abduction fantasies often combine with an impregnation fetish. A role play may include alien penetration, carrying a child in the womb that is half-alien, half-human, and birthing of the hybrid. The exophile’s fantasy may be to impregnate or be impregnated.
Alien sex fetishists sometimes use an “Ovipositor” to insert a jelly egg or two into the orifice of their choice. These “eggs” are gelatin and will dissolve with the heat of one’s body. Think of the Ovipositor as a role play prop. This scene may be played out as a consensual or consensual non-consent kink.
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3. Alien Sex Dolls
As sex dolls become more ubiquitous in kink lovers’ lives, so too do the array of products available. There are extremely life-like, talking sex dolls, as well as other species out there ready, willing, and able to meet your needs and desires!
Alien sex dolls can be designed to closely resemble humans with subtle differences like almond-shaped eyes, longer arms and fingers (tentacles), hairless with elf ears, or they can be a very unique looking extraterrestrial straight from one’s own imagination.
Read: Should You Buy a Sex Doll? What to Know
4. Alien Porn
Alien sex porn is out there to satisfy the curious and full-blown exophiles. And like all porn, you will find everything along the sexy spectrum.
There is vanilla alien sex porn that is consensual and could even be considered romantic. There is also hardcore BDSM alien sex scenes that involve abduction, deep-penetrating tentacles and other activities that are not scripted as consensual.
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5. Alien Tentacle Fetish
The tentacle fetish is its own paraphilia and includes sea creatures like octopi and some that are not of this world. With the alien sex fetish, aliens may have two or more of these “limbs” to hold, stroke, squeeze, pinch, or penetrate you with.
Alien sex tentacle fantasies often involve domination and even rape because the tentacles are used to envelop and hold a human against their will.
Role plays used to act out tentacle fantasies may include sensation play through suctioning with various devices like vacuum hoses and cups.
Read: Tentacle Porn: A Kink for Octopus Tentacles
6. Alien Sex Cosplay
Cosplaying or costume roleplaying grew out of science fiction fans dressing up at sci-fi conventions, so alien cosplaying for exophiles makes perfect sense.
Alien sex cosplay is its own subgenre within cosplay, and there are entire communities that meet all around the world. Not every alien cosplayer will want to act out alien sex scenes with you, but the community is a good place to start if you want to find like-minded fetishists and possible sex partners.
Read: Cosplay Sex: Why We Love Sexual Cosplay
7. Alien Sex Erotica
Sci-fi writers have been penning tales of alien sex forever—it’s a genre that exophiles are very aware of. Writing or reading alien kink stories may or may not mean you have a fetish, but if you do, there is plenty to explore.
Just as women love erotica as much as porn, they also use alien sex erotica to get off when they long for alien sex. It’s as good as porn and even better for many, as you can use your imagination to visualize what your dream alien looks like.
There are also graphic novels and comics that bring alien sex scenes to life for those who want more visual stimulation.
8. AI Alien Sex Imagery and Stories
If alien sex is your fetish, you can bring it to life yourself with the latest AI tools available. Text-to-image software like Stable Diffusion can be used to create photo-realistic images of you and your alien fantasy being.
It may take some practice using different prompts, but it can be a fun, creative, and arousing way to play with your kink.
If you want to be the star of your very own alien sex story, you can use the language-processing tool ChatGPT to write for you. You’ll be surprised at how much this software can do with very little info from humans.
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