Do full red lips turn you on? Do you love to lick a woman’s lips when kissing? Does a pierced lip get you hard? You may have a lip fetish.
What Is a Lip Fetish?
A lip fetish involves the attraction to and/or sexual arousal from seeing or touching another person’s lips. A fetish for lips can be specific to the size, shape, color, or adornment of lips, or a specific movement the lips are making.
As the lip fetish is a sexual fixation on one body part, it is known as a partialism. The lip fetish may also be part of a person’s broader mouth fetish.
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Because lips are involved in so many types of foreplay and sexual acts, many of us who love lips wouldn’t necessarily call it a fetish. But others will freely share that they are indeed a lip fetishist.
The lips are one of many erogenous zones on both men and women, with many sensitive nerve endings that play a part in many related kinks.
10 Lip Fetishes and Related Kinks
1. Big Lips Fetish
The big lips fetish has been around long before fillers pumped up the lips of half the women on Instagram. Big lips are sexy, alluring, and inviting, and are a beauty trend that currently permeates our celebrity culture.
Naturally big lips are rarer than one might think, as more and more women are getting lip injections at walk-in clinics. Some women opt for lip liners or lip blushing, a semi-permanent tattoo that gives the appearance of fuller lips.
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2. Lipstick Fetish
Some lip fetishists prefer bare lips but most will say that lipstick enhances their attraction or is a defining part of their kink. Fire-engine red lips top the charts, with bubblegum pink, passionate purple, and naughty nudes in close competition for lipstick aficionados.
You can buy your lover lipstick—colors that turn you on—or ask to paint her lips yourself. Maybe you want her to leave lipstick marks on your cheek, color, or mirror. Ask and you shall receive.
3. Spit/Drooling Lip Fetish
Men who love watching blowjob porn are often turned the fuck on when they see a woman drooling or spitting on a cock they imagine was theirs. Watching a woman slobbering all over your cock as you push it between her inviting lips is a hot scene and irresistible for those with a drooling or spitting lip kink.
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4. Lip Curling (Crying Fetish)
While some of us may poke fun at the “ugly cry face,” there are lip kinksters who get aroused at watching lips curl and tremble. This attraction is often tied to the vulnerability attached, that someone is feeling upset or out of control. Many people who love a good lip curl also have a crying fetish.
You might even notice that some lips curl when a person is having an orgasm. Lip contortions made while climaxing can be a big thrill for some lip lovers.
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5. Lip Biting Fetish
The lip biting fetish can also be part of the crying fetish, but it is more often seen as a suggestive look. How many times have we seen an on-screen starlet or porn actor bite their lower lip and bat their eyelashes. Some subs have the lip-biting look down pat, using it alongside submissive poses.
Another kind of lip biting fetish involves a lip fetishist biting another person’s lips. Ideally it wouldn’t involve any breaking of the skin, but nibbling while kissing and making out would definitely be on the menu.
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6. Pouting Fetish
You don’t need big lips to give a good pout. Just stick out that bottom lip and sigh for full effect. Pouting is often seen as juvenile as kids learn to pout at an early age in an effort to get what they want from their parents.
A pouting fetish may arise in adults as part of a power exchange relationship that involves begging, for a reward or forgiveness. Pouting may also be part of an age regression fetish such as Daddy Dom Little Girl, wherein the woman acting as a girl pouts when she doesn’t get her way.
Read: 11 Age Play Fetishes and Kinks
7. Kissing Kinks
I don’t know if you can have a lip fetish and not love to kiss. If you love lips, you are likely a kissing aficionado who prides themselves on your smooching prowess.
Kisses may be long and slow with lots of tongue, or involve delicate contact with all parts of a lover’s body. Kissing compatibility is very important and may be essential to a lip fetishist.
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8. Smoking Fetish
There is still something sexy about a cigarette being held between pouty lips, or the long slow exhale of smoke escaping from a pair of puckered lips. While not a healthy habit, these smoking images are undeniably hot. If you want to hook up with a smoker to satisfy your smoking fetish, it’s easy enough. You can even use fake cigarettes as props if second hand smoke ruins your vibe.
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9. Tattoo Lip Fetish
Those with tattoo fetishes are often very particular about placement of tattoos. Tattoos on lips or inside lips are rare, adding to the attraction, because of the sensitivity and pain.
Some women and men tattoo the inside of their lip with something very secretive or meaningful because it is hidden to all, except for those they are intimate with. Blushing is another form of lip tattooing to color the lips temporarily.
Read: Tattoo and Piercing Fetish
10. Pierced Lip Fetish
While piercing can be its own fetish, there are those with a pierced lip fetish. A person may find attraction in the aesthetic of a pierced lip, seeing a metal ring circle a delicate lip. The arousal may also involve the tactile sensation while kissing, feeling the pierced lip with their lips or tongue.
Pierced lips can also refer to a woman’s lips down south, her outer and inner labia. These for-your-eyes-only piercings are a delight for unsuspecting lip fetishists and also for the kink curious.
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