What Is a Wind Fetish?
A wind fetish is the sexual arousal or attraction to being blown by the wind. It can be the sensation of wind one feels, or about watching objects or other people being blown by wind.
The wind fetish is under the weather fetish umbrella that also includes the sunshine fetish, cloud fetish, rain fetish, thunderstorm fetish, snow fetish, and fog fetish.
Those with a wind fetish, or any weather fetish, will closely monitor their weather apps and weather channels to know when strong-force winds and wind warnings are happening, before they happen.
Wind can not only make a fetishist feel aroused, but also excited, fearful, and in awe of Mother Nature’s prowess. It is the unpredictability of speed and direction that is part of the attraction to wind.
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9 Examples of Wind Fetishes
1. Wind Blowing Up a Dress
While many wind fetishists talk about the feel of wind, the visual component is very strong for some. There’s nothing quite as sexy as seeing a woman’s summer dress blow up above her knees and maybe even waist from a strong gust of wind. Perhaps the most iconic scene comes from Marilyn Monroe in the film The Seven Year Itch.
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2. Clothes Blowing in the Wind
Do some people actually get turned on by watching clothes on a clothesline flapping in the breeze? Yes, they do! While picturesque to most, a wind fetishist will find this scene a real turn on. Driving around in the country where clotheslines abound is the perfect way to scratch this itch.
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3. Sensation of Wind on the Face
A cool summer breeze or a chilly winter wind provides a way to tickle this fetishist’s fancy. And there may be a preference to the outside temperature or season for the fetishist—they may like the sensation to be gentle or fierce.
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4. Being Pushed by Strong Winds
The strength of the wind can matter—the stronger the wind, the more aroused they become. For those who crave a strong gale, the fetish may be attached to danger, risk, and fear. Wind enthusiasts may enjoy the feeling of being controlled by the wind.
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5. Watching Others Struggle in the Wind
Some fetishists share that being a voyeur to another person being blown around by strong winds is what gets them off. Seeing a person struggle, their bodies push against the wind, their hair whipping around wildly is sexually exciting.
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6. Trees Blowing in the Wind
A wind fetish that includes watching tree branches being blown around is often a crossover with dendrophilia, the tree fetish. Watching the silhouette of dry branches sway in a cold winter breeze or changing leaves in the fall swish wildly in the wind—they can be very exciting to someone with a wind fetish.
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7. Wind Directions
Those with a wind fetish will know which way the wind is blowing. Wind directions can be a special aspect of the fetish, as it will factor into wind speed and temperature. It can influence how and where a person will enjoy their fetish.
8. Wind with Rain or Snow
Weather fetishes often overlap, and what the wind is blowing can be important. Some fetishists will be turned on by a slow swirling wind that blows the snow, providing a winter wonderland or snow-globe effect. Others may like to be caught in a hard-driving rain blowing sideways.
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9. The Sound of Wind
The wind fetish may be deeply rooted in the visual or sensory aspects of wind, but there are those who primarily enjoy the sound of wind—from a gentle wind blowing through leaves on a tree to a howling driving wind that whips between tall buildings. Pick your pleasure!
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8 Wind Fetish Ideas
1. Walk on a Windy Day
There’s something oh so fine about walking with the wind at your back, helping to push you along. It can be exhilarating and sexually exciting at the same time. You may also enjoy walking against the wind, feeling submissive against the force of Mother Nature.
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2. Install Fans
As the wind is an unreliable lover for a fetishist, sometimes it needs to be manufactured. Some kinksters will have fans throughout their home for a simulated experience. This can be done with overhead fans, table fans, box fans, or standing fans. Masturbate while feeling the fan’s cool breeze on your genitals.
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3. Watch Disaster Movies
Most wind fetishists will have a catalog of their favorite disaster movies that feature wind prominently. Look for films that are centered around natural disasters like tornadoes, hurricanes, and tsunamis for thrills and chills.
4. Go Skydiving
For adrenaline junkies who also have a wind fetish, take to the skies for the ultimate fix. While this may be too extreme for some fetishists, others will get hooked and want to go again immediately.
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5. Watch Clouds
A wind fetish may be all about watching without the sensation. Even those without a fetish can love the experience of lying in the grass, looking upwards to watch cirrus, alto, and cumulus clouds, morphing from one incarnation to another. You can also mix in bondage to elevate your outdoor experience.
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6. Use Weather Apps and Alerts
Weather apps and alerts are a wind fetishist’s best friend. At the tap of the finger, you can find out which way the wind is blowing, the speed, and any wind warnings that may be present or expected in the near future. Plan your day around the wind!
7. Enjoy Wind Sports
One way to enjoy a wind fetish is to participate or train in outdoor sports where wind factors heavily. This may be canoeing or rowing, windsurfing or surfing, sailing, hangliding, parachuting, or hot air ballooning. Who says you can’t enjoy fetish and sport together!
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8. Connect Online with Wind Fetishists
The wind fetish is not common, so people with this fetish can feel very isolated and even ashamed because it’s not out there like everyday BDSM kinks like bondage and dominatrixes.
But, there are forums and small pockets of fetishists that do connect online on reddit threads and other safe spaces. Though rare, this fetish does not have the “ick factor” that some kinks do, so sharing it likely won’t have the same fear attached as some fetishes do.
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Do you have a wind fetish? How do you enjoy your fetish? Please share!
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