Stories of Kinky Adventures

When the days are shorter and the temperatures are below zero, banish the blues  and cut the cold with hot memories about kinky adventures!

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Here are three stories of people who tried new kinks in 2016.

Submissive-Dominant Switch

“Like many folks in the fetish communities, I look incognito. No stereotypical kinky, punk outfits to give me away. I’m fifty-something, balding, kindly, have glasses, and look like your average repairman. Usually my thing is getting whipped, but a woman I met was more into being dominated than dominating, and we had clicked so I wanted to try switching gears.

She had a thing for bad boys and wanted me to dress up in an orange jumpsuit and buzz my head. I got a few temporary tattoos of anchors and dragons from WalMart.

Later I found out this fetish for criminals is called hybristophila, but I doubt Marge is one for labels. It was fun, but I’m not convincing in the role! Neither of us got our rocks off.

We’re friends now, but I dream of her taking off her belt and beating me senseless with it.” – Bruce, 53

Foot Fetish Exploration

“I’m into leather, and rubber. The aesthetic and ritual are essential to my experiences of arousal and intimacy. For many, BDSM can include foot worship or footwear but not for me. Anyhow, I met Blake last summer. When he wrote, he admitted that he couldn’t keep his eyes off of my feet.

I’ve never thought my feet were especially hot but nor are they ugly. I’d been wearing a pair of sturdy, sensible sandals, nothing special! After a few dates we talked about our kinky lifestyles and a lot matched up, but he said his primary interest is women’s feet.

I didn’t really know what to do so I just asked, and he took me shoe shopping. I learned to tease him over his jeans with my toes, he even liked his ass cheeks crushed with my high heels. Since he got off on it so intensely, I started to get aroused by my foot power, and now I have about thirty pairs of high heels.” – Amanda, 36

Pain over Pleasure

“I’ve been into hardcore bondage and S&M forever. Even as a young teen, I didn’t have vanilla fantasies like a bikini girl or anything. It’s odd because I’m an alpha male, and no one to look at me would ever know how much I love to be humiliated, tied up, pissed on, and beaten. Nothing gets my dick as hard as pain.

It was more out of curiosity if I could function outside my fetish worlds, when this girl asked me to sleep with her. I’m twenty-four and have never had a plain old blow job or anything like that.  I’ve always wanted to experience cock and ball torture, and I lost my virginity to a dominatrix I hired. My first girlfriend was into the same kinky stuff until she moved away.

I thought I would try something more mainstream.  I mean, who would turn down a blow from a babe like this? The whole time I kept hoping she would bite too hard, or start calling me her little slut.

I’m glad I tried, though, if only so I can think about how to disclose, or find like-minded women for dating.” – Christopher, 24