Want to meet local gay men to share your kinky side with?
Whether you have a fetish, are into bondage, or want to explore domination and submission, try these ideas for meeting gay men who are into BDSM.
Where to Meet Gay Men into BDSM
Gay BDSM Dating Sites
It doesn’t get any easier than this. Hookup apps like Grindr are great, but imagine a service that caters specifically to men in the BDSM community. There are only a handful out there, and the one I recommend is GayBDSMdate.com.
You’ll find more local guys into fetish and BDSM at Gay BDSM Date than anywhere else. They also offer a decent free account that lets you check out the gay BDSM chat rooms and live member videos at no cost, which is a great way to take a test drive with no investment.
Gay BDSM Community Events
Want to go the in-person route and meet a lot of kinky guys in one place? Search for events in your city that cater to the gay BDSM dating scene.
Depending on where you live you might be able to find gay fetish clubs or attend gay fetish and BDSM nights at local nightspots. Some events that are much larger but happen less frequently are BDSM conventions and annual parties.
Why not attend a munch? A munch allows you to meet and sit down with other kinksters in the light of day, in a no-pressure environment. Munches are a great place to meet new people who share your interests and to learn more about your local BDSM community.
Want to know more about BDSM munches? Read The BDSM Munch article over at Kink Lovers.
Gay BDSM Vacations
Some resorts that are LGBT-friendly or that cater only to the gay community have “fetish weeks” or weekends dedicated to kinky men and BDSM play. There are also hotels and smaller vacation spots that offer dungeons and kink-friendly accommodations.
While not strictly for gay travel, Kink Lovers has a great Guide to BDSM Vacations.
Gay BDSM Groups and Meetups
BDSM community sites are also a good way to connect with the gay BDSM scene near you. I found one gay fetish group near me on Meetup.com, but what types of events and who attends will vary, depending on where you live.
Another option is meeting guys on Facebook. Look for groups and pages related to your interest and start participating.
Lastly, you could try a free BDSM and fetish site like Fetlife.com, but be aware that it’s not strictly for gay men.
Got any tips to add to this list? Where do you meet partners for gay BDSM dating?
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