Our latest kinky confession comes from a man who is ready to make his wife’s bisexual fantasy come true while enjoying it himself. We’ll offer him some advice that might help you also.
“We’re an exciting, pleasurable, electrifying couple that’s completely new to all of the curiosities of the fantasy world. I’m straight, and she’s been bi-curious for a long time. We have been trying to find a bisexual female for my wife’s very first bi experience while I sit back to watch the show and to pleasure the two beauties. How can I make my wife feel comfortable to have another female explore her while she explores her fantasy?”
Ooh, it’s going to be a wonderful year ahead! Sitting in on your wife’s first bi session and joining in the fun will be insanely hot.
To make it steamy and comfortable for everyone, here are five tips for making the most of your wife’s bisexual fantasy come true.
5 Tips for Your Bi Wife’s Threesome Fantasy
1. Let your wife take the reins.
Make sure your wife is in the driver’s seat, with you along for the ride. Since it’s her bisexual fantasy, don’t interfere too much with partner selection. It’s fun to work together screening profiles and reaching out to potential thirds, and it’s okay to share your preferences but ultimately, make this your wife’s decision, who she wants to experiment with.
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The same goes for how the fantasy plays out. Leave it up to your wife and the new woman on how far they want to take it, what they want to do in bed, what kind of participation they want from you, and what the timing looks like.
2. Keep your focus on your wife.
Of course your dick will be throbbing for new flesh, but don’t blow a future of threeways and sharing an ongoing parade of hot babes by giving your wife a complex straight off the bat. This is something you’re experiencing WITH her and FOR her. If she feels threatened, left out, jealous, or if you only show sexual interest in her date, everything will dry up fast.
If and when you get the green light from both ladies to do whatever it is they want you to do, make sure your hands and attention are still on your bisexual wife. Stop what you’re doing to touch her, kiss her, to do it with her, to say something sexy and reassuring—whatever it takes to make sure she is the focus for you.
3. Remember, the new woman is a human being, not a sex toy.
Threesome dynamics can be tricky, especially at first. You want to keep your attention on your wife. You might feel awkward even though you’re horny, watching your wife get off with someone else. Don’t forget to communicate with this new lover by name and think of her needs, not just in bed, but safety, a robe, clean towels, and a taxi. Make her comfortable.
4. Go with the flow.
Don’t have rigid or unrealistic expectations about your bisexual threesome. Whatever happens, happens. Accept any awkwardness or outcome with a light and warm attitude. If you come too soon, or your dick doesn’t cooperate, or someone backs out, or anything else that can “go wrong,” just take it as first-time jitters and enjoy the experience for what it is. Practice makes perfect so let it be pleasant enough for a repeat.
This exploration may lead to a hotwifing or cuckold type of relationship, depending how things go. Be open to all the possibilities!
5. Make love to your wife afterwards.
Use your exciting scene to get closer and to share hot sex together later that night or the following day. Let your wife remember what turned her on, and use the shared experience to deepen your bond and make love even more.
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