“Since I was young, I always obeyed any female who demanded my cooperation. One woman demanded sex on her terms, but my member was too thick for her, so she trained me to satisfy her with my tongue and this was my first time. It was great. Later on I would beg women to let me go down on them, with rare refusals. When I was serving females, I looked upon them as my betters. I was happy.”
What this week’s Kinky Confession describes is something called vagina worship which is part of a larger subsection of BDSM centered on the reverence of certain body parts like breasts, buttocks, feet, and muscles. Body worship most often involves elements of dominance and submission in that the worshiper must prostate themselves while the object of their attention either passively accepts the honor, or doles out some form of punishment or reward. Sound appealing?
How to Show Love and Respect for the Vagina you Worship
Give Her a Full-Body Erotic Massage
Light some candles, bring out the scented oils, and make a night of it. Pay close attention to where your girlfriend holds her tension. If she’s prone to headaches, give her a scalp and neck massage, then slowly work your way down her body, spending lots of time around her favorite erogenous zones.
When you reach her pussy, slow things down even more. Explore her labia fully with your fingers. Once you’ve memorized every fold, turn your attention to her clit. Rub it gently at first, then as things heat up, get a little firmer. Finger her at the same time if that’s something she’s into. Just be sure to use a vagina-friendly massage oil.
Go Down and Go Deep
Every woman is different. Some love oral sex and wouldn’t feel properly served without it, while others could do without. If your girlfriend falls into that first category, become an expert in what she wants.
Deeply immerse yourself in the process, paying close attention to her reactions and following the direction she gives. Does she want you to take things slow and gentle, or is she grabbing your head and thrusting her pelvis towards you? Remember that you are a slave to her desires, and that in that moment, you exist only to please her.
Read: How to Please a Dominant Woman
Express Your Appreciation
Tell your girlfriend what you love about her pussy. Spend time admiring it, then make lists of sensuous adjectives—silky, throbbing, hot, and wet—that you can use to craft a poem or a story in honor of it. If you’re artistic, put your skills to use by painting, drawing, or sculpting her pussy. Even write and perform songs about it if you can!
Let this most revered part of your partner’s anatomy be your muse, just keep your creations between the two of you, unless she gives you permission to share.
For more ideas on the art of pussy worship, see sexologist Juliet Allen’s guide.
What other ways can you think of to worship the vagina? Leave a comment!
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