Kinky Confessions: Bi-Curious Submissive

I am a bi-curious VERY submissive guy who fantasizes about being in bondage, abused aggressively mentally, physically, and sexually as a fem bottom. I once submitted (multiple times) to a man for whom I would let tie my balls up, clip my nipples, and then I would beg to orally pleasure him. I got naked in his car and pleasured him and I also would beg him to let me lick his dirty cock. I have also done myself with a hammer, wine bottle, and more… lubed with toothpaste and cayenne pepper. – Johnathon

Wow! This is a VERY kinky confession. Thanks, Johnathon for sharing. This confession reminds me how difficult it can be to share our sexual proclivities with new partners. I would be curious to know how long J. was with this partner before engaging in these activities and where they met. And if he considers himself a submissive personality outside the bedroom. Many people are quite the opposite from their everyday life to their sex life. I like to be very much in control when I’m out in the world and appear almost shy in demeanor, but… when the clothes come off, I want a dominant partner I can submit to.

Many people have one particular kink that turns them on when beginning to explore their sexuality. But as I’m finding out… there’s a bit of a snowball effect with BDSM-related activities. One thing leads to another where you might have just thought it might be fun to tie your wrists to the bedpost but a year later you’ve got your ankles tied as well, with party favors such as blindfolds, whips, and wax added to the mix. As long as you’re with a lover you trust and play safe, why not!

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