Wondering why some people like cuckolding?
The cuckold lifestyle has gained in popularity as of late, and more men have grown comfortable with admitting their involvement in it. Although the cuckold fetish isn’t for everyone, many more men and women than you think are into this kink.
Let’s look at the WHY of cuckolding, and an example from a reader who tells us why he loves cuckold life so much.
Why Men Like the Cuckold Lifestyle
Here are some possible reasons why a man might love being cuckolded.
1. It’s Humiliating
If you get off on being shamed, mortified or bested in the sack, cuckolding could be the perfect fit for you. Many cuckold roleplays rely on the imagination, or memories of shameful events, but cuckolding is much more immediate, especially if you’re tied up and made to watch. It’s an immersive experience of erotic humiliation.
You can’t deny the truth, that you’re inferior to this other man in every way, and there’s no way to redeem yourself. The fact that you get off on it is just another shameful thing that places you even further down on the pecking order.
It’s perfect for someone who longs to be put in his place.
2. It’s Primal
Sexual competition has been a driving evolutionary force for as long as life has existed.
We see it in nature all the time: two stags locking horns, the stronger one throwing the weaker one to the ground; one dominant ape chasing another more submissive one away from a group of females, leaving the poor, defeated loser to hide behind a bush and masturbate while the winner fucks to his heart’s content.
We humans are no different. Being reminded of the basic principles of sexual competition can be super hot. A little jealousy can go a long way towards spicing things up between the sheets.
3. It’s Subversive
The subversive nature of cuckold kinks is another reason why men like cuckold play.
In a society where all men are supposed to be highly dominant sex machines whose needs eclipse women’s in every way, cuckolding offers up a new script. Women’s desires take center stage in this arena, leaving their pathetic excuses for ex-boyfriends no option but to crawl off and lick their wounds.
Cuckolding gives men permission to escape some of their suffocating gender roles, if only for a while. It’s no wonder it’s grown so popular. Fuck the patriarchy!
4. It’s about Relinquishing Control
A big part of rejecting the role of alpha male involves giving up control. Let some other man, who is bigger, better, and stronger, take the lead now. Forget the notion that you have ever claimed ownership of your girlfriend’s body. You never have and you never will.
She can decide who she wants to fuck, and she has. She’s chosen the better man, and you have no other option but to accept it. Isn’t it a relief, to surrender that responsibility? You can’t fight it, even if you want to, so why not just sit back and stroke yourself dry?
Read: Cuckold Tips: Watching Your Wife Have Sex
At least, that’s what I imagine a beta male might feel. What are your thoughts? Are you a cuckold plaything?
Why I Love Being a Cuckold
Don’t knock it until you try it! This applies to a recent kinky confession from a dear reader. He found out his true calling is being a cuckold.. forever!
“While making love to my wife, she confessed that she had been having sex with someone we knew. When she told me he was much better than me, I came right away. I could never get it out of my mind, so much so that every time I tried to have sex I would explode even before entry.
Since then, I have become a cuckold plaything. At first, I would be tied naked in the spare room and listen while he gave her a real good seeing too. I have been so excited at times that I have had an orgasm without even touching myself.
Last week I was tied naked to a chair in the bedroom, forced to watch him fondling her. She told me she was soaking wet, then knelt down and sucked him off. I couldn’t do anything but watch as the better man took my wife again and again.
I am a cuckold forever, and I love it!”
Thank you to our reader for sharing this very steamy confession with us. It’s wonderful to learn how men derive so much joy from being a cuckold husband.
Do you love cuckold kinks? Seeking your own cuckold arrangement?
Tell us what you think