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Paddle or No Paddle – What Kind of Spanking is Best?

Paddle or No Paddle – What Kind of Spanking is Best?

Lola Page August 21, 2014 0

When it comes to spanking, the right kind of implement is whichever one you like best, and that is the best fit for the level of experience and severity that works for you and

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Introducing Ball Gags Into Your XXX Scene Play

Introducing Ball Gags Into Your XXX Scene Play

Lola Page August 18, 2014 0

There are many things that look a lot easier than they are when you see people doing them on film. Using ball gags during sex play is one of those things. There’s a lot

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Kinky Confessions: Sex with Married Couples

Kinky Confessions: Sex with Married Couples

Holly August 14, 2014 0

Do you love threesomes or just the idea of one? I’ve had my share of threesomes that came about by accident with people I already knew or with who I was dating. It had

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Easing Her Into Foot Play

Easing Her Into Foot Play

Lola Page August 11, 2014 0

While not every woman is a latent foot fetishist just waiting to be discovered, most will respond well to a little foot play, especially if you introduce it gradually. Unless you already know that

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How To Break Up with Someone Gracefully

How To Break Up with Someone Gracefully

Lola Page August 7, 2014 0

5 Tips for Breaking Up Gracefully, Learned Through Too Much Damn Experience. Another year, another breakup. That’s been my story, at least since the turn of the decade and there were many more before that

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Stepping Up to the Strap-On

Stepping Up to the Strap-On

Lola Page August 4, 2014 0

For a lot of guys, the idea of being penetrated with a strap-on dildo is simply a bridge too far. Whether it’s because it doesn’t fit with their idea of masculinity, or because they

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The Toy Box: KinkLab Bondage Tape

The Toy Box: KinkLab Bondage Tape

Holly July 31, 2014 0

When it comes to kink I’m a late bloomer. Spending years in a vanilla-sex relationship can do that to you. Part of my sexual self-discovery has included role playing, spanking, and bonage, and toys.

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Expanding the Horizons of Your Kinky Play

Expanding the Horizons of Your Kinky Play

Lola Page July 28, 2014 0

Over time, even kinky sex can lose a bit of its luster. They say that variety is the spice of life, and that’s true of the kink life, too. If you find that things

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He Had a Sleeping Bag Fetish – Camping Anyone?

He Had a Sleeping Bag Fetish – Camping Anyone?

Lola Page July 24, 2014 0

Last year I was dating this guy who wasn’t a big kinkster, but he did have a specific fetish that drove him wild. Nothing turned him on more than sex in a sleeping bag. Of

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The Master Bedroom: How We Balance Control in a Kinky Relationship

The Master Bedroom: How We Balance Control in a Kinky Relationship

Lola Page July 21, 2014 1

Early on in our marriage, my husband and I established a rule: I could rule the roost in the kitchen, I could be the one who drives, and I could have dominion over the

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