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Paddle or No Paddle – What Kind of Spanking is Best?

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When it comes to spanking, the right kind of implement is whichever one you like best, and that is the best fit for the level of experience and severity that works for you and your partner. You don’t need to employ any sort of fancy tool to get a lot of pleasure out of spanking, but an impressive paddle or intimidating riding crop can add to the pageantry and spectacle of the experience, if such things are part of your criteria.

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Paddles come in a wide variety of shapes, sizes and designs. Some paddles have holes, from simple straight-line configurations to elaborate patterns. Other paddles might be textured in such a way as to leave a word visible on the flesh of the spanking recipient. “SLUT” and “SLAVE” are two favorites to leave behind in welt form.

Of course, there are lots of everyday items that you can use to deliver a good spanking, as well. From wooden hairbrushes and rulers to belts and canes, any number of objects can be turned into vehicles for an enjoyable evening of erotic spanking.

In the end, it all comes down to personal preference. For some kinksters like you’ll meet on FindSpankingPartners.com, an open hand is still the best spanking implement. For others like the kinky crowd at BDSMdate.com, the object itself is part of the fun, and they get an added sense of authority and control, whether what they’re wielding is a crop or switch. There are other ways to enhance your spanking sessions, too, like the use of spanking benches, or combining spanking with the use of restraints.

If custom wooden paddles or other elaborate instruments are part of the fun for you, then by all means employ them. If you prefer to keep it simple, have your partner assume the position and take matters into your own hands – so to speak.

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