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BDSM Profile Writing Tips

Writing an online dating profile is difficult for everyone. Writing a profile for a BDSM site poses even more challenges. The keys to attracting what you’re looking for are honesty and clarity. Here are tips for writing a profile that will help you find a suitable match.

Identity
How do you define yourself in the BDSM community? If you’re a newbie you’ll want to familiarize yourself with definitions. You may be a submissive, but not a slave. Maybe you’re a dominant with a masochistic streak. Be specific.

Experience
Once you’ve stated your identity, you’ll want to explain how you came to be this type of person. If this is new to you, say so. Do you also want someone that is new to BDSM, or are you looking for a teacher?

Relationship
Be open if you’re already in a relationship and state whether your current partner is aware of your online presence. Be clear about what you want – your personal preferences. Some people have no intention of meeting others in real life and that’s okay as long as you admit this in your profile.

Sexual Interest
Some people think BDSM is all about sex, usually those new to the scene. The intricate intimate relationships the community offers explores much more than sex. Talk about how you view the connection and how important sex is in the relationship(s) you seek.

Outside BDSM
Kink is only a part of us, so share aspects of yourself that reflect the whole of your being. What interests or passions keep you motivated? Do you travel a lot for work? Are you busy raising children? These things will give people a clearer picture of who you are.

Photo
Post a recent photo that isn’t your best or worst. You want to attract people but not disappoint them when you meet face-to-face. And don’t use a sexually overt picture – remember, it’s not all about sex.

Clarity will help you attract people best suited to you and avoid wasting time. Honesty will earn you respect in the BDSM community and protect your reputation.

Kinks: What else do you include when writing an online profile? 

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