Do you have capnolagnia? Like everything else, smoking can be a fetish, and there are lots of smoking fetish stories!
Some stories are specific types of smoking fetishes: the cigar kink is common in gay leather and bear culture, for example. Smoking can be associated with BDSM domination. Lots of people have smoking fetish stories about women smoking, especially in the past when it was taboo and associated with risqué, liberated women.
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Here’s my smoking fetish story: I have always found naughty vintage French postcard erotica to be incredibly sensual and exciting. There’s something about the old-fashioned and playful postures and the era’s fashions and hairstyles that are very beautiful to me. They are quite innocent compared to what we can access today, but just thinking about how forward it was for those women, pursuing modeling and showgirl work on their own terms, really adds something for me. I also adore the shoes, stockings, lingerie and finger wave hair. But for some reason, the ones where those models are smoking extra-long cigarettes with holders feel next level.
I don’t smoke and don’t date smokers, but I fantasize about long kissing sessions and these nearly naked hotties blowing smoke all over me. I imagine them smoking after a wonderful woman-on-woman session, or even while I’m exploring their body. Yes, this smoking fetish story is much tamer than many of my kinks and BDSM fantasies, but it’s been there ever since I saw my first French postcard at an antique store when I was young.
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11 Smoking Fetish Confessions
1. Rebel, Rebel
“Long-time reader of Kink Lovers here. I’m an older lesbian with a dirty mind. The number of smoker fetish fantasies that go through my mind I keep to myself. No one smokes anymore even though we all used to. There’s something rogue and gender-queer about a woman smoking, brings to mind old blues women or the cowgirls. It’s the devil-may-care freedom but also the whole hand-to-mouth thing, the sensual focus being on the lips and hands.
I don’t really think about it in terms of phallic shape or that kind of Freudian interpretation. It’s more about her assuming a man’s freedom to do as she pleases. I also find jeans sexy and women truckers, as well as lots of more BDSM type kinks. I’m definitely the submissive one.” – Diane, 61
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2. The Sparks Fly
“I honestly get all hot and bothered when a woman outside a bar asks me for a light. The ritual of sparking a match or cupping my hand around the lighter while she sucks, that small exchange, gives me hours of masturbation fodder later.” – Carlos, 26
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3. Glutton for Punishment
“I saw a movie once where a chain-smoking man would stub out one cigarette after another on the sole of his boot. To this day I am a bootlicker and I dream about a dom who punishes me by putting his cigarettes out on my body. We don’t do that though, but I love reading smoking fetish erotica about this kind of thing.” – Cyndee, 28
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4. She Rules
“Very precise smoking fetish fantasy—red, red lips of a powerful domme, that’s the aesthetic that does it for me.” – Erik, 31
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5. Taboos and Tabloids
“I used to love those celebrity mags with pictures of shopping, baby bumps, or girls gone bad caught by paparazzi outside a nightclub smoking. Those pictures of hot women trashed out of their tree, blowing smoke everywhere, I don’t know—just did it for me. It’s even sexier to me now when someone ‘sneaks a cigarette’ because no one smokes, and it is so forbidden. For me, the puffs and exhales with lots of smoke are really important.” – Darrell, 36
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6. Hard as Rock
“The smoking fetish is all rock ‘n’ roll for me. That blast of exhaling is pure rebellion. It’s about heavily made-up women with feathered hair and fringes, pounding a guitar, drinking beer, parading around in skinny jeans and spiky boots. The hottest thing in the world is well-worn, high heel boots and a woman dancing in them and smoking. I just want to rip her pants down and ravish her.” – Nick, 33
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7. Blowing Smoke
“I asked my wife to smoke for me in saucy lingerie while I play with myself. She’s adventurous, and we accept each other’s kinks and curiosities. But she really does hate smoking, and it just wasn’t convincing. She doesn’t mind if I watch women smoking on Youtube.
Some guys like to watch porn, but I get much more excited watching the videos where the woman just looks at you confidently and smokes, with different kinds of exhales, crushing the cigarette out, vamp or natural makeup styles, nice hands with manicures. I couldn’t tell you why this is so exciting but when I was a teenager everyone around me smoked. I remember watching women smoking at the pool or the BBQ, smoking for hours, those long summers.” – Steven, 47
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8. Marital Bliss
“My husband smokes a raunchy cigar, blows it all over me while I’m bound up or postured. He struts around, gives his orders, his presence like a dictator. I’m naked and vulnerable and tied up. He tells me what to do, clenches that cigar between his teeth. It’s a symbol of his cock and of his power. I do anything he wants.” – Lissie, 31
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9. Sneak a Peek
“My girlfriend was snooping around on my search history and found some of my kink searches. She wanted to know what I was into. She found some BDSM stuff, but she also found a cache of brunettes in skimpy dresses laying around smoking. I couldn’t believe my good luck when she confessed that she still sneaks a few cigarettes now and again. On special occasions she smokes for me. I love watching her.” – Noah, 27
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10. Smoking in the Girls’ Room
“Oh god, I get so horny watching two women sharing a cigarette. Opening the package, blowing smoke on each other’s faces, lingerie, the whole nine yards.
There’s videos out there that aren’t really porn, but they might be soft porn with breasts showing. Most of them are just gals in their bras smoking together. They get thousands of viewers, so I’m not the only one with this smoking fetish! It’s not the same in real life. I don’t love the smell of cigarettes. But it’s so sensual to watch women kissing, touching, smoking together.” – Mario, 40
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11. Smoke Show
“My wife hates smokers and smoking, but she doesn’t mind me hiring someone to smoke now and again as long as there’s no touching.
My “friend” doesn’t even take off her clothes. She just touches herself softly, like her nipples under her bra, or dangling a black shoe and rubbing the arch of her foot. The important part is the smoking. Long nails with the cigarette. She smokes three or four cigarettes over an hour. I like vampy nails and high heels, but softer clothes. I ask her to blow smoke rings and handle the cigarette a lot. I love watching her take the cigarette out of the box. I love the lighting part and the putting out part. I want her to look away as if she doesn’t really know I’m watching, but to tease me once in a while by meeting my eyes and running her hand along her body, blowing smoke out.” – Brady, 52
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