The fantasy is so commonplace it’s not even a kink—nearly every man, ever, has fantasized about watching a woman he’s hot for getting it from another guy. It’s the main ingredient in porn.
While many assume the man is a stand in for “you,” it’s actually much more than that. Very few guys view porn with you in his place. While you imagine giving it to her yourself, watching HIM fuck her is also key.
Just the thought of a woman taking it from behind gets your dick rock hard.
And while there are lots of kinky women and polyamorous people into showing off or group scenes, there are just as many cases of her getting fucked by other guys when it was YOUR idea.
7 Reasons it’s Hot to Watch Another Man with Your Wife or GF
1. Visual cues are incredibly arousing for men.
You hear this all the time—men are visual. What does it mean? Isn’t everyone visual? Who doesn’t get turned on by visual signifiers?
Yes, women ARE visual. But if I walk in on you and my bestie unexpectedly, trust me, it won’t make my pussy instantly wet.
We can look at a thousand rippling muscles and perfect cocks and not really feel anything. For women, visual cues work best when we’re already aroused, where for you, you respond TO them by getting horny.
2. Attention is very arousing to women, so she might enjoy showing off.
Some women have an exhibitionist inside. We all crave attention and if it’s part of our sexual makeup, not just emotional, being right in the middle of the tension and desire of two men, and tantalizing you with him can be an exhilarating show.
And what guy doesn’t want to watch his hot wife at her most horny?
3. It’s a porn fantasy come to life.
You can see all the guy on girl you want, and everything else, in porn. The varieties and players are endless. But the idea of watching her take a banging in every hole from a living, breathing male is like a porn fantasy come to life.
4. What’s taboo is hot.
Anything forbidden or rare is sexually exciting. Since this isn’t something that happens every day, for most guys, it’s super hot.
5. The risk amplifies your desire.
Risk is a major factor in sexual arousal. The thought of her with another male makes you crazy because it flirts very close to the thought of not having her. And not having a woman makes her insanely desirable.
6. There is sperm competition.
Male animals and human men who see a female getting attention from another male, or getting sex from him, experience biological changes: your testosterone surges, your erection and ejaculation are stronger, and there are more sperm in your ejaculate.
The thrill of giving it to your wife or girlfriend after another man has been sniffing around, or has had her sexually, is beyond anything else. You don’t have to do anything to get there—your body does it all by itself.
7. It can be tied up with BDSM, submission, humiliation, cuckolding, hotwifing, or masochism kinks.
In and of itself, the desire to see your girlfriend get fucked by another dude is so commonplace it’s almost banal. Calling it a fetish or kink is like calling it kinky to love breasts or ass cheeks.
But it can be totally connected to dozens of kinks and fetishes from cuckolding to peeping tom to punishing her to group sex scenes.
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