Being the Submissive in Group Sex

I recently had one of the most intriguing nights of my life, playing the submissive in group sex with four women, and a man!

It all began with a sexy request from an amazing individual who had an intriguing desire to play out a specific scene. He asked that I be with four scantily-clad women, BUT I could NOT touch anyone’s vagina or even kiss. And I had to “endure” the experience for well over an hour!

No kissing, no fucking, no sucking, no penetration of any kind. All the while, the man who made the request sat on the sidelines to watch.

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Submissive Group Sex: Giving Up Control

I LOVE to please the women I am with, so it was a challenge to be only on the receiving end of the pleasure being given.

For this entire scenario to take place, I had to assume one of the most submissive positions I have ever been in, in a group sex situation—all of my agency and power was given away to these women and the voyeur of the night. Could YOU give up nearly all your power to a witnessing stranger’s whims and desires, on demand? It’s not as easy as it sounds, even with four sexy ladies thrown in.

There were times when I was not sure of what I was supposed to do, or what I was allowed to do! I did my best to stay in the moment and not zone out, imagining some other sexy situation to get aroused. I mean, there were four women rubbing my body and stroking my dick with lube for a long-ass time, which helped… ha ha.

I was told for some parts of the session, that I couldn’t make noise. Just imagine having four women touching, licking, kissing various parts of your body while trying to contain how it makes you feel.

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Certain people are wired to only give power, while others are wired to only receive. There’s no shaming a person who can only play dominant or submissive, but there is truth to the idea that to give more conscientiously and empathetically, it really does help for one to have been on the receiving end of domination—to understand on a visceral, first-person perspective what a submissive really experiences.

There’s levels to submission scenes. Not that long ago I was wrapped in gauze from head to toe like a mummy, then wrapped again with saran wrap (we played safe, and I was given space to breathe.)

Once I was deemed helpless, my play partners then teased my nipples and testicles with a jagged-edged knife and an electric shock wand. That was what I would call an intermediate level of group sex submission, as most people start with fuzzy handcuffs and a blindfold. Your submissive mileage may vary, especially if you “top from the bottom,” so to speak.

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Would you give up your ALL your control and power to be the submissive in a group sex scene?

Adhimu “Malcolm Lovejoy” Stewart