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4 Ways to Explore Your Inner Submissive

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If you are a top boss, an executive, or used to being in a dominant position in life, then you need to read this post. Finding balance and letting your inner submissive out of the box is a great wat to explore new facets of yourself. Let me give you a few suggestions on how to get started.

4 Ways to Explore Your Inner Submissive

1. Role Play

It may feel a bit weird at first but once you get going on the role playing it’s hard to stop, especially if you are an exhibitionist who craves attention.

There are so many scenarios where you would be helpless, with the woman in control. For example, you could be a patient in a hospital bed, and she could be the doctor, probing and exploring your body while you’re too ill to move. She could be the wicked warden to your locked-up inmate, calling you into the office to be dressed down.

2. Let Your Lover Dominate

Along with  role playing and submission, comes the question of domination. Whether it is you being tied up, or wearing a ball gag, or simply being compelled to obey commands, letting her take control can be hot!

Shed all your notions that you can control a situation, and let yourself be carried away in the moment. Let someone else make the decisions and accept that you must obey the consequences of those decisions. It isn’t only kinky, it’s also kinda zen.

3. Take It from a Strap-On

Once you’ve crossed those thresholds, the next step is to get fucked in the ass by a strap-on. Penetration—allowing your body to be entered and used by another person—is the ultimate kind of submission. When a woman enters a man, it plays with that border between the homoerotic and the straight—eradicating that thin veneer of societal pretention can be a powerful experience.

Ask your girlfriend or lover about it. You’d be surprised how many women fantasize about giving it to their men!

5. Play the Slave

Beyond domination, there is the actual concept of slavery. This isn’t like forty years in the desert type slavery. This is more like you deciding that you will do whatever your mistress commands. Even if it is some form of public humiliation, cuckoldry, or whatever, you agree to do it without complaint.

This is a concept I recommend you play around with before you don a collar and submit to a 24/7 slave-owner relationship you’re not sure how to get out of.

As always, please remember that submission and domination acts requires consent from all parties and is best practiced with safe words. You can stop at any time, and you can always leave a situation whenever you like. Be safe out there, and take care of yourselves!

How do you explore your submissive side? Please share in the comments!

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