Trying new or different sex positions is a great way to play with different sensations, movements, and roles.
Whether you’re a serious fetishist, in a BDSM power exchange relationship, or just enjoy the usual with a bit of a mix, changing sex positions can add so many benefits.
Playing together and sharing experiences is a great way to bond with a long-term lover. And playing with a kinky sex position for a hookup will make it memorable.
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8 Kinky Sex Positions to Spice Things Up
1. The Bendover
One of the most common phrases of lust you hear is “wanting to bend her over.” The idea of taking her standing with her bent over something, somewhere, never runs out of hotness.
Even though we may more often do it laying down, the mind doesn’t jump first to “I want to lay her down in a bed of roses” unless you’re Bon Jovi. The bendover is the kinky sex position that fulfills this basic instinct. Fucking standing up is as urgent and as hot as it gets.
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There’s not much to it, and it’s easy for most people, so making use of it more often can only deliver more pleasure. He stands behind her, and she bends over while supporting herself on the kitchen counter, or holding onto a sturdy chair, a spanking bench or metal bar.
Fucking this way is natural for young and athletic folks, but it is also an amazing kinky sex position for older lovers or those with joint problems. When the kneeling gets tough, it’s easy to stand.
For lovers who can’t take their hands off each other, or those into public sex, this kinky sex position lets you have quickie fucks. Behind the car, in a gas station restroom with the sink for support, against some bleachers after dark at the back of the baseball diamond—you get the idea.
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2. The Goddess Shrine
Cunnilingus isn’t necessarily kinky—but putting all the focus on licking, kissing, and sucking for her can definitely switch things up. She sits with legs bent at knee and spread wide, her back against a wall. Her lover lays on their stomach, or in a downward kneeling position like prayer.
This is a basic position that anyone can master, a variation of the standard pussy licking positions. But having her up and him down gives a twist of authority. For those into goddess worship or pussy worship as a fetish, this kinky sex position makes even more sense.
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3. The Royal Dip
This kinky oral sex position gives great visuals for guys and is a nice variation that lets him stand over his partner. She lays on her back looking up at him with his cock over her face. He can dip his dick down into her mouth.
The angle of the royal dip kinky sex position may take a bit of practice for both lovers, especially if he’s largely endowed. She can hang her head slightly off of the bed to adjust the angle. People who enjoy deep throating and are a wee bit submissive may really enjoy giving in this position.
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4. Butt Balling
There may be a better name for this kinky sex position, but it’s butt fucking on a stability ball, so it gets the point across.
This position is seriously the difference, for some people, between ass fucking and not ass fucking. Lots of us love receiving anal sex, but the logistics are difficult to work out. Anal sex requires intense relaxation. Butt balling also benefits from a bit of control for the bottom.
Doggy style works great for allowing the recipient to back up and move side to side but doesn’t offer support for the long haul. So while pillows under her can help a lot, the fitness ball works wonders. It holds her nicely and she can roll slightly or a lot in any direction, giving her leverage to receive on her terms. A bonus is that she’s also riding against the ball with her clit.
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5. Easy Driver
The easy driver is a kinky sex position that offers very different pleasures to both lovers. He sits on the edge of the bed or sofa or a big chair, depending on height- experiment with the best place that works for you. She straddles him with her legs behind him, bending down onto floor.
This kinky sex position takes quite a bit of agility for her but is easy for him. He gets a gorgeous eyeful of ass and free hands to spank away. She gets to writhe and grind with really deep penetration at an intense angle.
If she loves anal as well as spanking, this kinky sex position is incredible for double penetration. He can insert his fingers or penetrate her with a dildo. He gets a close up view of that action too.
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6. Spread Eagle Missionary and Reversal
Spice up the tried-and-true missionary position by simply tying each of her limbs to the bed posts. You can use your favorite leather restraints or just use some scarves if you’re experimenting and don’t have latex cuffs lying around.
The simple act of spreading really wide can feel so intense psychologically in addition to the physical pleasures.
Reverse this if he’s the sub, so that his femdom can have her way with him!
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7. Private Dancer
Chair sex is vastly underrated. The lap dance kinky sex position is not just for exotic dance establishments. Make use of its versatility at home.
Basically, he sits comfortably in a chair while she teases, dances, rubs, gyrates, and ultimately takes him by straddling him.
The active partner does not have to be an acrobat to make this kinky sex position work like a charm. If she does not have thighs of steel, she can support herself on his legs and enjoy a gentle rocking motion while holding the back of a sturdy chair. She can stand and straddle, brushing his cock with her wet pussy lips. If the chair is high enough, she can take him in while standing.
This amazing kinky sex position is great if she’s dominant, or loves performative sex play, or if he likes to watch. Use the private dancer to model new lingerie and to tease and excite.
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8. Doggy Style
This classic position never loses its luster as the kinkiest of the basic positions. That’s because it’s the way most animals do it, as natural as it gets. It’s also because it’s raunchier with no face-to face-intimacy. This lets both lovers be less inhibited.
There is lots to be said for the deep kissing positions, of course. But sometimes you just want to take or be taken. Sometimes you want to push your ass in the air and get fucked hard.
Doggy can get kinkier if you’re using bondage and restraint paraphernalia, or pup play, or spanking and flogging, or dominating in any way. Some women find it powerful rather than submissive, too- taking the viewpoint that he is servicing her while she worries only about her pleasures.
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