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Dungeon Rules

Dungeon Dominatrix

Have you been to a BDSM dungeon for play and experimentation? Or is this adventure only something you dream about?

A dungeon describes any space that is used for “scene” activities. Dungeons are often private or built in residential homes but can also be housed in commercial spaces. Some are open to the public, others are members only.

A professional dominatrix often runs or maintains a dungeon that is rented out for couples and groups looking to explore bdsm activities. Depending on space and investment, a dungeon may be very no frills or it may be furnished with elaborate designs and decorations as well as be equipped with attachments and furnishings such as shackles, racks, cages, spanking benches, and medical tables.

Sophisticated dungeons are usually rented out to bdsm clubs and organizations that appoint DMs (dungeon monitors) to ensure safe and responsible play. Every dungeon has rules. Before entering, participants must accept these rules. If they are broken, the participant is ejected without negotiation and may be blacklisted from future events.

These are some rules that I’ve encountered while researching different events.

  • Event personnel must be permitted to search personal belongings before entering
  • No sex allowed (any kind)
  • No use of sex toys allowed
  • Organizers and hosts of event are not responsible for loss, damage, or stolen items
  • Use of the dungeon and its equipment is at your own risk
  • DM warnings and instructions must be followed
  • DMs have the right to refuse you entry to play spaces and can ask you to leave
  • DMs have the right to stop unsafe play
  • Safewords must be respected (you will be escorted off premises otherwise)
  • Safewords: Green (everything is okay), Yellow (I need a minute/check in with me), Red (Stop/untie me/the scene is over)
  • Do not interrupt a scene (bring concerns to the DM)
  • Do not touch others’ property without permission
  • Clean equipment with sanitizers after use

Have you been to a dungeon? Can you share your experience?

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