One of the top kinks for men is the cuckold fetish.
Many jerk off to this kink without using the cuckold vocabulary, getting off to imagining their girlfriend or wife have sex with another man.
What is the Cuckold Fetish?
You might not use the language and think the word cuckold is for the birds, and you would be right—it comes from the cuckoo bird who lays her eggs in other bird’s nests. Guys get off by “letting” their women lay in other men’s nests or the cuckold.
It’s an imperfect metaphor, to be sure, but came from the poem “The Owl and the Nightingale,” a satirical work on the subject of a man not knowing his wife was screwing around. The author is unknown but the subject became known forever as a “cuckold.”
So, a cuckold is the husband of a woman who commits adultery. But in a cuckold fetish, the cuckold is complicit in the arrangement and derives sexual satisfaction from being humiliated.
Couples may enjoy their cuckold fetish as a fantasy, using cuckold roleplay, or they act it out in full by arranging for a “bull” to satisfy the wife while her cuckold husband watches.
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5 Cuckold Fetish Facts
Why is the cuckold kink so popular with men? Here are a few reasons.
1. Watching a dude bang your wife makes your testosterone skyrocket.
Very few straight guys watch porn to fantasize about the man, but watching her take the dick is so hot. When you are imagining or witnessing flirtation or sex taking place, you get a jolt of added testosterone. Men are by nature competitive, at the most basic level—your sperm count literally revs up when “your” woman is being courted or fucked by another primate.
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2. Voyeurism and exhibitionism are part of the cuckolding fetish.
Sometimes, a cuckold fetish is fulfilled privately—in other words, the cuckold isn’t there. You’re at home jacking off because you think your wife is out with her other stud, or you know she is and you’re pulling at your meat like a jackhammer.
For men or women who get their jollies watching or showing off, fucking in front of someone else or watching it happen adds more kinks to the mix.
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3. Humiliation is a part of cuckold fetish.
Traditionally, a cuckold is mocked because he “lets” his woman get away or because he is not studly enough to keep her sexual interest, so in horny desperation she turns to other men.
For guys into extreme humiliation play, this is an important part of the fetish because the climax of the story is of course him jerking off alone while she’s in the throes of passion with someone who is man enough to satisfy her.
This makes the cuckold kink a natural variation of BDSM, sissy boy, or femdom kinks.
4. Small-dick humiliation is another key variant.
Men who want to be humiliated over their small cock often have a cuckold kink and fantasize about other guys who can satisfy their wife with their monstrous dicks. Their anguish over “not being man enough” gets tangled up in the arousal—thinking of guys with bigger dicks, and imagining their girlfriend or wife getting it good from that guy.
While some men find it arousing to be humiliated or punished for their small cock, the small-dick, sissy-boy kink is common even for guys who have big cocks. Whatever you’ve got, you want it to be bigger.
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5. Women like the cuckold fetish too.
The female cuckold, or reverse cuckold, is also a thing. The”cuckquean” gets off on the idea that her husband or partner is adulterous.
It plays out a bit differently in cuckold fetish scenarios in that the woman is so faithful or submissive that giving him to another woman is the ultimate sacrifice or gift of love. It’s a humiliation thing, but with a more emotional driver.
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Whatever it is, it’s true—the idea of my guy penetrating another woman with his fingers, mouth, and cock drives me wild, and is one of my go-to jerk-off fantasies.
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