What Is a Size Kink?
Size kinks are a variety of different fetishes or sexual interests where size is the driving factor. It can be a specific size person or body part (big dick, big muscles, big woman), or it can be about size contrasts. Many size kinks are fantasy kinks, ones that are not humanly possible, such as microphilia or macrophilia.
15 Size Kinks and Fetishes
1. Size Difference Kink
Contrasts can be powerfully arousing. An interesting size kink is the size difference kink. Partners find contrasts in their size sexually exciting. A common one is between very tall and very short partners, or skinny and fat.
The size difference kink can also be between partners with very different penis sizes, muscle sizes, or foot and hand sizes.
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2. Big Cock Fetish
Almost every one of any gender and orientation occasionally fantasizes about big dicks. Perhaps the rarity of a really big cock adds something “larger than life” to our fantasies and experiences.
Most of us are more than happy with average cock sizes in real life, but some people have a big cock fetish. “Size queens” are both female and gay male lovers, who get off on big dicks, the bigger the better.
Curiously, many straight men also have a big cock fetish. It is profoundly exciting for many dudes to imagine or watch a woman being taken by another male with a huge symbol of virility.
There is also the big Black cock (BBC) kink. This kink is based on preference for a big cock, as well as on racial fetishization, and often, on contrasts (tiny woman or pussy, big cock, for example, or black and white couples.)
3. Small Cock Fetish
The small cock fetish is much less common than the big cock kink, but some women and gay men have a strong kinky preference for extra small dicks. As with many fetishes, it isn’t always possible to explain a particular kink. It may be their first experiences imprinted them or that a smaller size was the cultural norm.
The only friend I have who voices this kink preference out loud is one of my gay friends. He says he has no idea why his taste runs against the usual grain in his community, but says he sees small penises as “beautiful and elegant and exquisitely sensitive to touch.”
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4. Small Penis Humiliation
In BDSM, erotic humiliation or erotic degradation can be sexually and psychologically thrilling. Small penis humiliation (SPH) is a common humiliation kink. It is a kind of size kink and is enjoyed on the giving and receiving sides both.
Basically, the dominant lover mocks and degrades the submissive by making fun of their lack of manhood, small dick, limited virility, and inability to satisfy their partner.
While some guys with small penises practice this humiliation fetish and size kink, most people who play with small dick humiliation do not actually have a small size. Some guys with huge dicks also get off on this.
5. Big Booty Fetish
The bigger the better is how it goes for some butt lovers. The big butt fetish is a common preference for a huge butt.
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6. Hyper Fetish
If it’s not just one body part that appeals when bigger than average, you may have hypertrophilia, or the hyper fetish. This means you go wild for abnormally large or exaggerated body parts.
Some people with this size fetish do play around with implants, surgeries, and body building. But it more often manifests in hentai or other fantasy tools. Hentai is a kind of erotic manga that often features very exaggerated characteristics.
Another area is cosplay or furry fetishes. There are furry characters and costumes that are called hyperfurs because they have huge body parts.
7. Microphilia
Microphilia merges of science fiction, cinema, and sex. Think Alice in Wonderland, consuming tinctures that made her grow huge and then tiny. Think of the Incredible Shrinking Woman. Some people feel sexually aroused by these scenarios and fantasize about being miniature, or making love to a tiny lover.
Read: Microphilia: Shrunken Women and Other Micro Fetishes
8. Macrophilia
Macrophilia is sometimes called the giantess fetish. Being small around a powerful, huge goddess or monster is a familiar theme in literature, cinema, and, yes, porn and erotica.
Read: What Kind of Kink Is Macrophilia?
9. Fat Fetish
Many lovers enjoy all kinds of bodies including chubby ones, and a preference for “something to squeeze” is common. But some people have a size fetish for larger than life bodies.
A fat fetish size kink can be very specific, with strong attraction to a certain level of body fat. From moderately curvy to extremely fat, there’s something for everyone.
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10. Gaining Fetish
For some people, the idea of someone gaining weight is powerfully arousing. It is a mix of fat fetish and transformation fetish that fuels this size kink.
11. Feeder Fetish
Not everyone with a fat fetish is turned on by feederism, which is basically arousal from extreme feeding. It can be exciting to witness a single binge-eating session, but the feeder fetish is usually more complex and is about feeding frequently and the control the feeder has over the feedee who may eventually become too large to take care of themselves.
It’s a power exchange relationship but also connected to the thrill of consuming. For some people with this fetish, the size transformation is the essential part—it is not just the fat, but the process of gaining. So it is a size fetish, a fat fetish, a domination and submission fetish, a food fetish, and a gaining fetish all in one.
Read: Feederism: Feeding and Gaining Fetish Explained
12. Muscle Worship
Most people appreciate muscles as part of the overall package of the body. Defined muscles are usually ranked as very attractive. But when they become too exaggerated, we may lose interest. Some people have a big muscle size fetish, however. The whole cult of extreme bodybuilding has long been a thing, in part because of the sexual fetish element.
This size kink is called muscle worship. It’s very common in gay culture to see muscle worship, but some women love the mythic, amped up, exaggerated muscles of extreme bodybuilders. Some men and some lesbian women also have this size fetish and love female muscle worship.
The muscle worship kink is also very commonly autoerotic. People with the muscle fetish can be driven to bodybuilding and get a sexual thrill from building up, flexing, working, and showing off their own muscles.
Read: Muscle Worship: 10 Ideas for Muscle Fetishists
13. Big Feet Fetish
The foot fetish is extremely common, and for some people, it is a very specific kind of foot or quality of the foot that does it for them. Some like extra long toenails. Some like to see a woman’s foot in nylon stockings. Some like the smell of feet. And some like really big feet.
People with this size fetish get excited by really big feet. There is plenty of porn where men, women, and transgender people with huge feet basically just show them off, bare, in shoes, and in different situations.
14. Body Inflation Fetish and Expansion Fetishes
There are a wide variety of inflation and expansion fetishes. Are these size kinks? Maybe. They are transformation fetishes that are sometimes also connected to size.
The idea of belly inflation or an inflatable person is a powerful source of arousal for some people. They get excited by the transformation of watching a belly fill and get bigger. Some folks with this size fetish enjoy wearing or having their partner wear inflatable body costumes to appear inflated and larger.
Read: Body Inflation Fetish and Fantasy
15. Big Boob Fetish
The big breast fetish is very common. It manifests in many ways across cultures and times. In the 80s it was common for porn actresses and models to have multiple breast augmentations, exaggerated to an almost cartoonish appearance. Many erotic manga graphics feature equally exaggerated breast sizes. When a woman with naturally big boobs walks past, heads turn.
A size kink for big breasts is widespread. Folks with a big breast fetish are powerfully aroused sexually by large breasts.
Read: Breast Fetish: 9 Types of Breast Kinks
Likewise, there are people with a very strong preference for tiny breasts. The “barely there” version that is mostly nipple or just a suggested slope has an intense erotic beauty for many.
Breast preferences are quite common, but for most, it is not one size or another but the variety. Most of us enjoy boobs of every kind!
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