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Best Bondage Dating Sites for BDSM Lovers

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Whether you’re an expert with ropes and knots, a submissive who loves to be bound, or a curious onlooker who’s only watched but wants to try – these bondage sites are for you.

Finding sex partners out in the world is hard enough, let alone meeting someone you not only connect with but who shares your desire to explore bondage in the bedroom. BDSM dating sites offer a great way to meet local doms and subs looking for someone just like you. So if you’re ready to meet up with someone who will either tie you up or let you put them in a bind, give any of theses sites a chance.

BDSMdate.com : The Bigger the Better

This one is a no-brainer. BDSM Date has the largest number of profiles of people interested in BDSM, and bondage in particular, than any other site. This is probably the only bondage site that offers member videos and video introductions, in a no-holds-barred atmosphere that welcomes nudity and all fetishes.

Some features like bondage chat rooms are free for basic members. So even if you don’t want to spend money to meet someone in real life, you can still join the community, use the kinky chat, see some member videos, and participate in the blogs and groups.

If you’ve heard good things about the site Alt.com, then know that BDSMdate.com uses the same back end and database so you’ll find the same profiles on both and only need to join one. The main difference is that BDSM Date has less advertising inside which is nice.

Pro tip: As of 2020, some changes have been made to BDSM Date that I should mention. They are working on an overhaul of the mobile version and it’s come to my attention that the chat and member videos aren’t accessible on mobile with the basic membership. However, you can still access them on your laptop so that’s a good option if you are just trying to see more of the site before committing.

Bondage.com : The Name Says It All

Unfortunately this site hasn’t taken off quite like BDSM Date but it still has a larger database than most. I go on about member population all the time because that’s really what’s going to make the difference between finding people to actually meet up for bondage fun and the sad reality of most sites with only a dozen real profiles in your town. (If you ARE worried about scams, check out my scam avoidance tips.)

Bondage.com needs a bit of a design upgrade, but as for features it’s not too bad. They offer bondage forums, hot member stories and erotica, and more advanced features like video chat. Definitely worth trying out for bondage lovers, because as the name implies, bondage is the draw for most people who sign up here.

BDSMSingles.com : Simple Yet Effective

BDSM Singles has been around nearly as long as the sites above and also offers members a good chance of meeting someone local for bondage sessions and kinky dates. It’s much more basic than the two sites above in terms of features, but for some people that’s okay. Not everyone is interested in blogging, forums, or chatting over video. Some of us just want to focus on making an initial connection through messaging and quickly meeting up to see if there’s compatibility.

So for those of you who don’t need all the fancy entertainment (although video chat can really help you get to know someone before meeting), BDSM Singles is going to work just fine for you. As with the bondage sites above, a free profile will at the very least allow you to do a search which will show you how many people are local to you and then you can decide about the upgrade from there.

For more reviews on these and other niche kink dating sites, check out Kinky Dating Sites: The Kink Lovers Guide.

Have you had success finding bondage hookups and dates using online dating? What worked for you? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below..

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