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BDSM Chastity Culture

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In BDSM play, some people get their rocks off by signing away access to their most intimate bits to a master or mistress, in this case, called a key holder. If you ever wanted to try this kink, or are simply just curious we are going to impart some information about this unique fetish that cuts off access to the sub’s pleasure, until their dominant deems it appropriate.

Male Chastity Belts
Guy’s belts are usually some type of a sheath that covers the cock and sometimes the balls. They lock on, so the guy can’t get out without their domme unlocking the cock cage. Usually, they are meant for a limp dick, so if the guy starts to get aroused, the pressure can be a bit uncomfortable. Some particularly evil dommes give their slaves a chastity belt with spikes on the inside so it hurts even more when they get a hard on. It’s very easy for men to pee out of most chastity devices, and many can be easily cleaned while still being worn, so long-term chastity is feasible.

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“I keep my slave belted for five days or more per week, when I go to work,” confesses Gena, a hot domme from FindaFemdom.com. “Then on the weekend I let him out and tease his cock. I’ll let him cum if he’s been good, but I love to keep him guessing about when I will let him!”

Female Chastity Belts
Chastity belts for women are more involved. They are often not fail safe, sometimes a woman can slip something under the metal underwear and still get off, so if zero orgasm is your goal, you’ll have to be extra vigilant of your slave and get an extra secure belt. Women’s belts are much harder to clean, and generally need to be removed for such a task. In addition, menstruation and urination are sometimes difficult. Long-term chastity is a bit less reasonable for women, but still attainable with routines for cleaning.

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One fun idea for this fetish is adding in a bit of a cuckold element. You can belt your slave and deny them any pleasure, yet bring home a hot stud or sexy babe for fucking while your sub watches. They will feel the mild pain of the pressure of their burgeoning erection, or their dripping wet pussy that they can’t access. A dominant is sure to get off from the power they exert over their sub in this scenario.

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