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Chastity Play: 4 Reasons It’s So Hot

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This week’s kinky confession comes to us from a reader who wants to be owned in many different and intensely erotic ways:

“I want my wife to permanently lock me in chastity and allow me to only orgasm from pegging me. I also want to find her a BBC stud who will sexually satisfy her in a way that my little 3.8-inch length, 4-inch girth dicklet could never do.” – Tiny J

You certainly does have a way with words. Tiny J, I think you could put me out of a job!

Let’s take a look at this kink in more detail.

What is Chastity Play?

Chastity, in the realm of BDSM play, is for dominants and submissives who want to experiment with orgasm control.

The chaste person may be restricted from touching or pleasuring themselves by using a device such as a chastity belt or “cock cage”. The dominant partner acts as a “keyholder”, only allowing the submissive to masturbate or have intercourse by permission.

4 Reasons Chastity Play Is So Hot

1. You Must Give Up Control

Are you used to having the upper hand? Do you secretly long to be put in your place? Chastity play might be the perfect fit for you, as it takes your cock—something that society has deemed powerful and worthy of respect—and turns it into a sad, useless appendage.

If, like our reader, you feel that your cock is but a tiny dicklet, locking it up and handing over the key is the perfect way to punish yourself for having such an inferior cut of meat.

2. You Can’t Come without Permission

One sure-fire way to relinquish control is by giving up your right to come at will. Orgasm denial creates this incredible physical and psychological buildup that really pays off when the time finally comes for you to blow your load. There are a few different ways to practice orgasm denial, though none are as strict as chastity play.

There’s a hot, ritualistic aspect to locking up your cock that can’t be achieved via other methods. Just be sure to choose a cage that fits properly and doesn’t constrict your circulation. Stay away from metal cages, especially if you’re inexperienced.

Read: Orgasm Torture Tips for BDSM Couples

3. Your Partner Owns Your Junk

What’s hotter than being owned? Not only does it absolve you of all responsibility when it comes to your own pleasure, it creates a strong sense of safety and belonging. Of course, a big part of that is finding a partner you can really trust, then establishing boundaries and safe words.

Decide what ownership means to you, then figure out how you will incorporate that into your play sessions. Will your partner lock you up, then hang the key around her neck? Will you wear your cage for a predetermined amount of time, or until she tells you it’s time to take it off?

4. You Build Intimacy

In hammering out the terms of your master-slave agreement, you might find that you and your partner grow closer. That’s one of the hottest benefits of chastity play. I alluded to it earlier, but it can foster a sense of peace and inclusion that often, leads to greater intimacy.

It sounds like our reader understands this well and can’t wait to experience it for himself. I wish you well, Tiny J. May you have all the chastity, pegging and cuckolding fun you desire!

Want some ideas for chastity play? Read Tips and Tricks for Chastity Sessions.

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