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What’s the Deal With Erotic Spanking?

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Many people wonder why some people enjoy erotic spanking. Psychologists often try to analyze a kinkster’s past for motivations for enjoying such a painful and strange activity. However, the love of spanking can be boiled down to a few physiological reasons for enjoyment.

The light pain of a lover’s spanking hand can release glorious endorphins into the body, making the submissive feel great. The harder the spanking, the more the sub goes into “sub space,” i.e. that dreamy luscious feeling a sub gets from hard play. The top too, gets a rush of hormones that make them feel good in a BDSM play scene as well.

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Spanking is often seen as an entry-level S&M activity, but it is great for newbies and experts because it can easily go from light to hard, in the hands of an experienced dominant. Spanking can also be a gateway to other forms of corporal punishment like flogging, caning, and paddling. “I first got into BDSM when I realized that I loved it when my lover spanked me,” exclaims Ellen, who works at BDSMdate.com, “It was something he was just doing for fun, but it really got me going. I wanted more! It was definitely spanking that first helped me discover my kinky side.”

Any corporal punisher should aim for safety first. Focus the slaps on the meaty part of the ass and thighs. Tops should always observe their sub carefully. Follow a particularly hard slap with an observation of the bottom’s reaction, and give them a break from spanking with some sweet caresses or even light tickling on their red bum if it seems the spanking is getting to be too much for them. Always make sure you have a good idea of how far your sub wants to go. Ask them if they are okay with receiving marks, and of course, remove any rings or other jewellry that might cause any unintentional pain.

For more information read: Spanking Positions and Variations

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