BDSM Blowjob Ideas for Submissives

Looking for BDSM blowjob ideas for your submissive?

BDSM blowjobs are a service that subs provide for their doms. The blowjob may be part of a daily routine and be a loving practice, or the blowjob may have BDSM aspects like bondage or humiliation and degradation attached.

Submissive blowjobs can involve many other kinky practices or fetishes that a couple enjoys. They can be quick and satisfying or long and arduous acts that don’t involve ejaculation.

BDSM blowjobs can be foreplay, a singular act, a role play, take place between couples or groups, be kink lite or hardcore.

Let’s look at different kinds of BDSM blowjobs for kinky couples, doms and subs, and masters and slaves.

10 BDSM Blowjob Ideas

1. Take a Submissive Position

Kneeling to give a blowjob is just one of many submissive poses dominants like to have their subs in. The sub can kneel in front with their dom’s cock in their mouth, lovingly looking up, or kneel under his desk while he works at the same time. The sub can also be in a prayer position with hands behind their back for a hands-free session.

What kinky submissive pose or position will depend on the nature of the relationship, what the submissive blowjob means in that moment, and how long the position is to be held.

Read: 23 Submissive Poses and BDSM Slave Positions

2. Perform Cock Worship

There will be no quickie when it comes to a cock-worshiping blowjob. The sub will take their time, using their hands and mouth to lick and suck and stroke the dom’s shaft and cap. The sub may tell their dom how beautiful his cock is, how much they love it and enjoy having it in their mouth.

Cock worship may be a daily ritual that a sub is expected to perform or it may be more spontaneous it nature, initiated by the sub to gain points with their dominant.

Read: Cock Worship: 5 Things You Should Know

3. Receive a Facefucking

Facefucking blowjobs are for more hardcore BDSM couples, as it can even be a form of sexual punishment for the submissive who has misbehaved.

This type of submissive blowjob may include shoving the cock down the sub’s throat or slapping their cheeks with a hard shaft. The sub may be tied up so they can’t squirm or wiggle away. The dom may also use his hands behind the sub’s head for a more rough session.

Read: Sexual Punishments for Your BDSM Submissive

4. Perform Deepthroating

Deepthroating can be part of facefucking or it can be a loving submissive blowjob. How a sub feels while deepthroating will depend on the size of the cock.

Deepthroating can be extremely pleasurable for both when the cock is just the right fit so that gagging isn’t too much of an issue. Some doms have a kink for gagging, so that may be part of the deepthroating thrill.

Read: A Guide to Deep Throating

5. Add a Blindfold

A submissive with a blindfold on while giving a blowjob is sexy as fuck. They will appear more vulnerable to the dom as he slides his cock further in when she leasts expects it.

The dom will tell her when to open wider to envelop him between her luscious lips. When a sub is wearing a blindfold, you can add other unexpected delights to your repertoire, like sensation play, spanking, or hair pulling.

Read: Blindfolds, Hoods and Masks, Oh My!

6. Bondage Blowjob

In the prayer position, tying a subs wrists behind their back will place them at your mercy. The good sub will sit in anticipation, open mouth willing and ready.

A sub can also be tied in the spread eagle position on a bed or to a BDSM cross where submissive blowjobs may be only one of many dominant delights on the menu.

Read: Bondage Restraints: 15 Types of Bondage Gear

7. Create a Roleplay

Submissive blowjobs are perfect for D/s roleplay scenarios. A prisoner may be forced to suck her captor’s cock to keep them from harm. A boss might demand his employee perform a kinky blowjob in order to get a promotion. Or a flight attendant might need to submit to the pilot’s desires while he lands the plane.

Use your imagination to bring your BDSM blowjob fantasies to life. These are great for couples who are just exploring BDSM roles, blowjob positions and techniques.

Read: Blowjob Scenes for Kinky Lovers

8. Add Dirty Talk

Submissives know what turns their dom’s crank when it comes to taking dirty, if and when they are allowed to talk during sex. Some doms want adulation and praise, some want their subs to degrade themselves with talk like “I’m a good little slut” or “I love being your fuck toy.”

Dirty talk during BDSM blowjobs can be from both dom and sub, the dom praising the sub’s service or degrading them during the act.

Read: A Man’s Guide to Dirty Talk

9. Facials and Cumshots

If the submissive blowjob is intended to be humiliating, it can end in a cumshot to the face or other part of the body. Usually the face is seen as the most degrading spot a man can blow his load on a woman. The sub here may be asked to slather his cum all over her face and body or even clean up the mess by licking it.

Read: Blowjob Cumshot: Where to Blow Your Load

10. Gangbang Blowjobs

There’s no reason a BDSM blowjob need only be between two people. A dom may invite some “friends” to enjoy his sub’s service, one at a time while she remains silent and obedient to his instructions.

Gangbang blowjobs are not taking place in your average kinky couple’s relationship, but may very well be something that is negotiated in a BDSM contract or discussed with boundaries in place between a master and slave.

A gangbang blowjob session may end in a round of bukakke with three or more men shooting their cum simultaneously onto the kneeled submissive in the center of the circle jerk, post oral pleasuring.

Read: Bukkake Fetish FAQ: Do Women Like Bukkake?

Do you fantasize about receiving BDSM blowjobs? Do you service your Dom with kinky blowjobs? Please share!