Have you ever tried using a sex pillow? Wondering what a sex pillow is?
While sex pillows are not the first things we think of as sex toys or as part of a fetish repertoire, a sex pillow is a surprisingly useful and versatile tool for great sex!
There are many uses for a sex pillow in vanilla and kinky sex. There are also many kinds of sex pillows to enhance your play in different ways.
Sex pillows help couples change or achieve a particular angle to switch things up or to hit the right spot. Sex pillows can help lovers hold a particular position longer, in BDSM for example, or achieve deeper penetration. Sex pillows can help older lovers or lovers with disabilities or injuries get comfortable during sex.
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How to Use a Wedge Sex Pillow
There are a few different ways you can use a sex pillow to enhance, facilitate, or improve sex.
Achieve the Angle for G-Spot Stimulation
Still looking for the elusive G-spot? Or maybe you found it, but find it difficult to get at. By experimenting with a sex pillow, you can position yourself at different angles to make it easier to reach the G-spot with a cock, fingers, or sex toy.
She can use the sex pillow on her back or stomach and see if it’s easier for her lover to reach her G-spot that way.
Read: G-Spot Tips for Better Orgasms
Enjoy Deeper Penetration with a Sex Pillow
Deep penetration is an amazing feeling for many lovers. There are many factors that prevent deeper intercourse penetration, such as angle of vagina, length of penis, difficulty holding a position for long enough to satisfy, and many more possible reasons.
A very simple hack is to use a wedge sex pillow! Most of us have already tried this at some point, using a regular pillow from the bed or sofa to prop up our butt and get closer that way. A wedge sex pillow is much firmer and better designed and it’s a simple solution to the deepest penetration desired.
Read: How to Find Deep Penetration with any Size
Allow Perfect Oral Sex Positioning
Lift her up and back a bit for deeper penetration, but also for perfect oral sex positioning. She can relax while her lover gets a full banquet.
The sex pillow can also give a perfect incline for the one giving oral sex. For example, a lover can use the angled support for their head while she straddles and offers her pussy to their mouth.
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Find Comfort in Difficult Positions
You can be more adventurous and experimental while playing. A sex pillow can help prop any body part. You can use it between your knees when you are on your side, or prop your foot, or hold one leg up a bit. Get creative and see how it can enhance different sex positions.
Some positions are only tricky or difficult because of logistics of a particular couple. Maybe you have dramatic height differences between you, or you both have arthritis, or one of you is quite chubby. A sex pillow can prop you in all kinds of ways that make things more accessible!
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Enable New Sex Positions
Just by experimenting with a sex pillow, you will find unexpected positions and angles that add variety to the pleasure and sensations in your repertoire. A little support will help you experiment with a position that didn’t seem workable.
Sex wedges are not just to prop her body. Let him lift and tilt his pelvis from below, offering the cowgirl and reverse cowgirl much more traction and support. The sex pillow can also make it easier for him and her to hold your legs back and open, great for classic missionary and pegging alike!
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Stack Wedges for more Variety
Play with several sex pillows to stack them in different configurations for a variety of supported positions!
Use Sex Pillows for Solo Play
As with most sex toys, a sex pillow can enhance sex between couples or moresomes, as well as enhancing masturbation. Use a sex pillow to get more comfortable for solo time. A sex pillow can angle you better in front of a mirror, for example, or make it easier to self-penetrate anally or vaginally.
You can experiment with more toys and positions in masturbation by propping your pelvis, head, or knees in different ways.
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Types of Sex Pillows to Consider
Wedge Pillow
The most common kind of sex pillow is the wedge pillow. It is versatile and effective, offering an incline and support for great sex angles.
Cylinder Pillow
The simple cylinder is perhaps an underrated sex pillow as compared to the wedge. But the longer tube shape offers great comfort when propped under a neck or knees. It is especially amazing propped under her pelvis to lift it when she is on her tummy.
Pillow with a Toy Mount
Some clever sex pillow designs come with pockets for sex toys, called toy mounts. This adds a variety of possibilities for penetration and good vibrations!
Read: How to Use a Vibrator during Sex
Pillow with Attachment Points for Bondage
Not only can a sex pillow help in BDSM, for perhaps holding a bondage position comfortably for longer, but some are designed with kink in mind. Sex pillows that have attachment points for bondage add a whole other layer to ways to play.
Read: Light Bondage Ideas: How to Ease into Bondage Gently
Inflatable Sex Pillow
Modern inflatables have come a long way from crude blow-up devices of the past, and many inflatable sex pillows are especially comfortable and fun.
The main perk with an inflatable sex pillow is that it is easy to pack to take with you in backpack or suitcase, to make your sexy beach vacation, or trip to your in-laws, unforgettable!
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