Do you fantasize about sucking your lover’s balls? Curious about ball-sucking techniques?
How to Suck Balls
Work Up to It
Ball sucking lies somewhere between making out and penetration—it’s like a first course after the appetizer which is foreplay. After kissing and caressing, you are ready for something more intimate.
I suggest peeling the man’s pants off in anticipation with your head close to the package revealed. If you are a femdom, order your sub to strip before you.
Lick to Start
Just the tip of a tongue on a man’s testes is sure to make his cock dance in anticipation. He’ll be wanting you to give him a blowjob right then and there, but it’s best to save that for later, tease him first.
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Suck, Slurp, Spit, and Drool
After a little licking you can advance the play to sucking some of his ball sack between your hungry lips. Slurping sounds and telling him you can’t get enough will drive him crazy. You can also spit on his balls and drool if you know he likes that during blowjobs.
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Open Wide
During the sucking and slurping phase, you’ll want to look up every once and a while as a man gets super turned on watching a woman work between his legs. Make eye contact and open your mouth wide, before lowering back down.
Take a ball, or two, in your mouth and swish your tongue all around. Suck and pull the skin, being careful not to scrape your teeth on these warm nuts.
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Use Your Hands on His Cock
Just because you won’t give him a blowjob, yet, doesn’t mean you can’t work some magic with your fingers. Wrap one hand around his rock-hard shaft and rub it up and down. Use your thumb to manipulate his mushroom cap while you suck his balls.
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Feel Him Ejaculate
When testicle play is the main course, orgasm is the goal. With constant attention on a man’s cock and balls, it shouldn’t take long. Try to keep your mouth on his balls when you know he is about to come to give you both a unique, unforgettable sensation. Warning: Be prepared for a cum facial
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Try Different Ball Sucking Positions
You can play around in different sexual positions to find the best angle and reach for ball-sucking delights, but two positions are tops with most women.
The first is the man on his back with legs spread or with knees bent back. The woman can kneel forward and down to lick or lie curled up with her head close to his crotch.
The second is the 69-sex position, woman on top or bottom, which provides different perspectives and levels of control. In this position both partners can simultaneously enjoy oral and orgasm.
Read: 69ing Tips for Kinky Couples
10 More Ways to Play with Balls
1. Cupping and Stroking
Gentle femdoms or pleasure doms will be careful with their sub’s prized jewels. Playing with a lover’s balls is something vanilla couples also enjoy and use during foreplay to get the party started.
You can cup your partner’s balls while you give a blowjob or engage in anal play. Gentle stroking or manual manipulation can also be done in various sex positions like the 69.
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2. Testicle Tickling
Tickling balls can be a soft form of testicle torture that can be done manually or with sensory objects such as feathers, fabrics, and other textured implements.
You can tie your sub up for a more torturous experience, allowing you to move past their comfort zone to push their boundaries.
Read: Tickle Fetish and Sexual Tickling Games
3. Kissing and Licking
Who doesn’t like their balls kissed and licked. This can be done as a service from a dutiful sub or as an act of adoration from a vanilla lover. Gently kiss his bag and balls before licking it clean.
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4. Temperature Play
With balls being as sensitive as they are, even mild changes in temperature will be felt to a large degree. Warm cloths wrapped around can feel like heaven while something cold like ice cubes will make your nut sack shrivel up to a walnut. Blindfolding the recipient will only heighten the experience of temperature play.
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5. Ball Stretcher
Testicle play is not all fun and games, with some partners in a power exchange relationship opting for practices that involve cock and ball torture (CBT). Experienced Dom/mes will know how to engage in ball crushing and other practices safely and successfully.
A ball stretcher is a metal ring that fits around the base of the scrotum and applies pressure. If this device is worn regularly, it can eventually cause one’s balls to hang lower permanently.
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6. Ball Crusher
The ball crusher is another CBT device made of metal or plastic and clamps around your balls. There is a screw that can be tightened to increase the pain a recipient feels. Think vice grip for the scrotum.
Read: CBT Toys and Ball Busting Gear Ideas
7. Ball Bondage
For domination games and a kinky aesthetic, you can use testicle cuffs as a way of binding the balls. One cuff fits around the scrotum while the other encompasses the penis. The cuff on the scrotum acts similar to a ball stretcher.
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8. Impact Play
Any kind of impact play to the scrotum and balls must be done with care. A very gentle slap or flick of a finger is a good way to experiment, and that may be as far as it goes. Practice extreme caution when exploring impact play on the testes.
Read: Impact Play Tips, Tools, and Safety
9. Weigh Balls Down
You can use another type of ball stretcher, called a parachute, shaped like a cone that fits around your testicles. It is designed with holes and hooks to attach chains and various sized weights that will stretch your balls. Start with light weights and slowly progress to heavier ones over time.
10. Ball Massage
After CBT, or instead of, a sub may enjoy a straight-up, relaxing, ball massage. Get out the lubes—warming, flavorful, fragrant, oily—and gently work the sack and balls with hands or feet.
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