The most fun you can have learning about sex is through practice, but there are many other resources like blogs that can educate and inspire.
12 Sex Blogs for Inspiration and Advice
1. Future of Sex
The Future of Sex blog is one of the most interesting sex blogs out there. Their tagline is “how emerging technologies are expanding human sexuality.”
The variety of sex and tech news will appeal to 3D gamer types and proponents of trans-humanism and machine-human alliances. But even if you are opposed to AI and virtual sex, or have no idea what’s going on in those departments, this site will be a fascinating romp through unexpected fantasies.
Who knew? Find out more about a recent sex robot conference on Reimagining Sexuality. Learn about how sex toy companies are choosing to seek sustainable environmental solutions. Plus, discover the world of “teledildonics” and meet the hottest virtual reality porn stars.
Read: Male Sex Robots: Are You Being Replaced?
2. Beducated
This sex blog is a simple and extensive resource on sex education for all adults. There is a library of sex blog articles on every sexuality subject under the sky, and more than 100 courses with expert guides. The expressed objective of Beducated is “empowering grown-ups with pleasure-based sexual education.”
“Our mission is to smash taboos around sex once and for all. We want to help you unlearn shame, build confidence, and unlock your full pleasure potential.”
Just a few of the topics you can learn about in-depth include kinds of female orgasms, solving erectile dysfunction, learning how to squirt, fingering techniques, male to male pleasure, and breast massage.
Read: Dos and Don’ts of Fingering
3. Girl on the Net
The Girl on the Net is an “incredibly average London-based woman on the threshold of 40.” Her sex blog is “real-life sex stories and occasional horny fiction.” She also reads her stories to make audio porn because erotica read by robots wasn’t doing anything for her audience. These are very frank, real, and accessible, giving us a wonderful window into what other people think about sex.
“I hope to challenge sex stigma and spark fucky joy,” declares the Girl on the Net. “Fucky joy” is all I need to hear to dive all in!
Highlights include a list of “Sex Toys I Have.” Recent sex blog posts that might surprise include a celebration of the hotness of bald men. Lots of guest posts, too, for a variety of flavors, including one on the intimacy of fisting.
Read: Fisting: What You Need to Know
4. Brigit Delaney
This is a candid personal sex blog by a woman who is a wife and mother with an interest in photography and writing. “I write mainly about sex as it pertains to the most important facets of my life: marriage, aging, hormones, and mental health.”
Brigit says her marriage isn’t easy and is realistic about the challenges and struggles as well as the joys of being a couple. She writes from behind the scenes about their journey to explore consensual non-monogamy and kink, including dominance and submission.
Brigit is really interested in photography as well as in literature, so a highlight is photos of bare breasts and books. Those who enjoy reading will appreciate her takes on various popular and classic novels as much as the ins and outs of her BDSM journey in her marriage.
Read: First Time BDSM Stories: Readers Share Their Experiences
5. Liberator Unzipped
The Liberator Unzipped is a sex blog committed to sex education, the fun way. “Great sex is no accident; it’s the result of knowledge, skill, and creativity.”
The sex blog was founded in 2014. “From innovative tips and play ideas to illustrated position guides, the creative team behind Unzipped hopes to inspire better boning for readers across all genders, sexualities, and relationship statuses.”
The Liberator’s tone is fun and positive, and there is a lot of practical advice on sex topics of every kind. Some intriguing posts include a celebration of period sex, mastering the dick pic, and bondage for people who don’t like bondage.
Read: Menstruation Fetish: The Allure of Period Sex
6. Sex and Psychology
This psychology and sex blog features Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute and author of Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How It Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life.
An award-winning teacher at Harvard, his sex blog focuses on evidence and research, rather than subjective person ideas.
Anyone seeking to understand their lovers, their own desires or behaviors, or something about sex that they’ve seen on the news, will find many thorough answers here.
Some really interesting sex blog posts include research findings on whether women feel less sexual desire and pleasure than men, why people cheat, and the psychology of love at first sight.
Read: How to Talk about Your Kinky Desires
7. Cara Sutra
Cara’s sex blog is about her “real-life sex tales plus my most filthy fantasies, all confessed on the page for your orgasmic enjoyment.”
You will find a treasure trove bonus of lingerie pics, featuring Cara modelling her favorite panties, pasties, and teddies.
Her sex blog is all about BDSM and kink and she loves the various holidays! So you’ll find everything from candy cane vibrators to thoughts on ruined orgasms.
Read: 8 Panty Play Ideas for Panty Lovers
8. Love Emma
Emma Austin’s sex blog is “about sex, relationships, and porn. I write for women and men who want better sex, stronger relationships, and who don’t mind a little bit of vulnerability.”
Emma started her sex blog on Medium in 2019 and it really took off. That’s because her tone is pragmatic, practical, warm, and smart. You simply want to hear her thoughts on everything, from pussy massage to the tentacle dildo.
Read: Pussy Worship: How to Serve a Woman’s Vagina
9. Sexpert
Dr. Ava Cadell founded Sexpert “to share my wealth of knowledge about sex and relationships, and to offer a forum for all my fellow (s)experts to publish their insights as well.”
There’s a surprising focus on spirituality and sexuality, or sacred sexuality, with lots of sex blogs on tantra, sexual consciousness, and sensual sex. This may be because mindful sex often gets dismissed or forgotten, but sacred sexuality is historical and scientific. The kama sutra positions are, after all, carved all over ancient temple walls.
The other intriguing benefit of this sex blog is that the articles are specific in nature. So instead of broad strokes like kink or masturbation, you really zoom in on a specific angle of a topic to learn about it from the inside. Examples include cock worship in the BDSM community, how to finger a vagina, and how scents rev up your libido.
Read: 5 Ways to Make Masturbation Kinky
10. Literotica
Literotica is a sex blog dinosaur—it has been running since 1998, for 25 years. It is the world’s most popular English adult story sex blog in the world. It has 50 million readers a month and hosts half a million erotic stories.
You can read and write erotic short stories and poetry on this story sex blog. There is no limit to the kinds of themes, kinks, fantasies, or experiences that people write about. Every conceivable kind of erotica is represented.
Read: Writing Erotica for Your Lover
11. Joan Price
Joan Price’s sex blog is a very necessary niche—senior sex. Price is an “advocate for ageless sexuality.” Rejecting the stereotype that sex is for young people, she set about finding ways to keep older adults informed.
She wrote several books such as Better Than I Ever Expected: Straight Talk about Sex After Sixty, and Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud about Senior Sex, and also Sex After Grief, helping folks who have lost their spouse or partners choose sex again.
Joan is warm and candid and open minded, and her sex blog is fun and informative for a demographic too often neglected.
Read: 8 Tips to Find Your Kink Community
12. Bed Bible
This sex blog focuses exclusively on information about sex toys. They feature real people from every walk of life as testers, so that you get different perspectives, as all bodies and tastes are different.
There are reviews of sex dolls, sex toys, and tips on how to use them. You’ll also find information on making your own sex toys, sex toy safety, and cleaning sex toys.
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