You found a kinky partner via an adult dating site like BDSM Date or Kink Dating, and you know what they like in the bedroom but want to spend a night out on the town for a change. What is there to do that can still retain a bit of your kinky relationship? Here are some fun ideas that can up the ante of a regular old date with a little bdsm bling.
1. Secrets in Your Panties
Want to watch your sub squirm? If you have a female sub, get a remote controlled vibrator and put it in her pussy. Randomly turn it on throughout a nice dinner. For a male sub, try having them wear some sexy girly latex panties throughout an evening at the bar. No one will know except the two of you.
2. Under-the-Clothes Rope Harness
Many chest harnesses can be very discreet underneath some clothing. It can give your sub a feeling of restriction without shocking those you encounter in public.
3. Discreet Collar
Get your sub a discreet locking collar to wear out in public. There are many that look like fairly innocuous jewelry. The sign of ownership will make your sub feel sexy and special as they move through the everyday world on a date with you.
4. Verbal Control
Before you go out, tell your sub what to wear. Let them know that when you are out, you will make all the decisions and speak for them. If you really want to be controlling, make them ask to go to the bathroom, or tell them they can only speak when spoken to.
5. BDSM Club
Of course, the kinkiest date location possible would be to go to a BDSM club or fetish party because you can usually go all out and play with your sub to your heart’s desire. Before you go, make sure you read the rules of the party or event. Each one has different specifications as to what is allowed.
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