Kinky Confessions

Feminization and Sissification Fantasy

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Our latest kinky confession comes from a reader who fantasizes about feminization, with a little help from women.

“Looking for women willing to help me transition to a female. I love being a sub-male and receiving strap-on sex. I am horny almost all the time, masturbate with my penis dildos and use women’s hygiene products. I fantasize about getting a total orchiectomy and full penectomy or SRS. I enjoy using hair removal creams on my face, body, legs, and my intimate area. I love bringing the girl out of me and feminization.”

What is Feminization?

The feminization fetish, sometimes called forced feminization, and sometimes called sissification, is when a straight male wants to be “feminized.”

This may take place in a feminization fantasy, or in personal behavior, or in the context of sex with a woman (usually dominant), or all of the above.

Like other kinks, the feminization fetish in theory and practice can be mild, such as wearing women’s panties, to extreme, such as surgically removing male genitalia.

The fetish is sometimes associated with or part of autogynephilia, where a man is turned on by the idea of becoming a woman. It is often but not always part of BDSM humiliation play or domination/submission kinks, where the male is subservient to a dominating female and is humiliated by being feminized.

There are times when the kink is tied to cuckolding or cock mock scenarios, such as scenes where a male is humiliated for his small penis and must be feminized as punishment.

Read: 6 Facts about Small Penis Humiliation (SPH)

Humiliation and Feminization

Forced homosexual acts, such as mopping up cum with the tongue after a large-dicked male satisfies the dominant female, or receiving a painful ass fucking with a large cock, are all common sissification fantasies. But for many males turned on by feminization, such as our reader, the excitement is in finding dominating women to feminize them, not men.

However, the feminization fantasy or fetish exists outside all of these related or intertwined kinks on its own. Not every male who desires feminization, for example, finds it humiliating, or has a humiliation kink. It can be arousing for its own sake, or as an act of reverence of worship. Lots of guys with this fetish have big cocks and no desire at all to be mocked—just to wear women’s clothes, or to feel like a woman. Even the “forced” part of “forced feminization” is situational—some men with this kink are excited by submission, and others are far more excited by the femininity of it all.

How to Fulfill the Feminization Fantasy

As our Kinky Confessions writer points out, there are a number of ways to play out the feminization scenario.

Wearing women’s undergarments is an extremely common fantasy among men, and dress-up can be an important part of a feminization kink.

Immersing oneself in the mystique of female beauty is another—using creams, face masks, perfumes, and shaving are frequent turn ons.

Using sanitary napkins or tampons that women usually use during menstruation can be enormously exciting for some males. They see this is the ultimate humiliation, and the turn on is in the submission. Others are aroused by menstruation and playing at it for themselves is arousing because it takes them close to the mystery. For many men, it is both of these factors that make wearing a pad against their cock exciting.

Feminization Games and Anal Sex

Not all men who enjoy receiving anal view penetration as feminization. Anal play is widespread among many genders, orientations, and kinks. However, guys into feminization may be incredibly excited by getting anal, being humiliated with large dildos, being forced to take a male cock up the ass, or getting pegged by their domme in a strap-on. The humiliation concept and the sensation of being penetrated “like a woman” is a powerful turn on.

Some men into extreme subservience or humiliation have castration fantasies. This may be based on the excitement of being humiliated or as an ultimate act of surrender to a dominant woman, and for others, it is the extreme feminization of the idea that is essential. While the thought may be exciting, the permanence and the danger of such an act make this aspect of the fetish a fantasy, not a reality, for most.

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There are lots of ways to play sissification games and take feminization to its limits. From women’s wardrobes to beauty salons to getting a nice ass fucking by your mistress in a strap-on, or even just rubbing your dick at home solo while imagining it all. But how do you meet women who are into sissification, who are just as turned on by the idea as you are?

It’s not the kind of thing you can throw out at Sunday dinner: “If anyone knows any single women, I’m looking for ones who want to shave me from head to toe and change my Tampax” might not fly.

How to Find Dominant Women

Your best bet is to look for kinky babes who are turned on by extreme sissy domination and humiliating subs, and especially those who have experienced feminization play and enjoyed it. The best way to approach the search is through candid honesty. State what you need in your dating profile, post it in BDSM dating sites, and also respond to any profiles you see that mention that she likes dominating in this way.

If your dates are very kinky and really into BDSM play, and you have great chemistry, she may be open to learning the ropes of feminization.

You can play in more subtle ways with various hookups if you are open to that, too—for example, you can look for women into strap-ons and pegging, or women who don’t mind if you dress up in their clothes.

I would consider hiring a dominant woman who specializes in feminization or sissification until you meet Mistress Right. There is nothing wrong with finding a trusted professionalism to give you what you need.

Read: Find a Femdom Seeking Submissive Men

Do you share our reader’s fantasy of feminization? Please share in the comments!

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