“I am new to this, and need to try and live a little. I would enjoy being naked for a mistress and obeying her needs. I would try anything to please my mistress, including being with another man and inserting objects. I would kiss her feet, legs, and ass, and enjoy jerking off for her or anyone else. Masturbation is nothing without her watching. If I was a bad boy, she could spank my ass red, then tell me to suck another man’s c*ck.” – D.
Thank you for your Kinky Confession, and sharing your deepest, most delicious fantasies with us. There are lots of fetishes that incorporate any or all of submission, object penetration, humiliation, goddess worship, foot worship, sissification, exhibitionism, spanking, and masturbation denial.
How to Enjoy Multiple Submissive Kinks
Sexual submission is an extremely commonplace fantasy, and it is a fantasy often played out in real time or lived as a lifestyle. It is a widespread phenomenon among women, who feel most satisfied sexually by submitting to a powerful man. This is evidenced by a range over the centuries of bestselling romance novels for women, such as Fifty Shades of Grey.
The submissive male and the dominant woman is just as popular. This power dynamic inverts the traditional roles of most societies, giving it an added edge or taboo that is incredibly arousing for many. Some men and women who practice male submission and female domination say this is actually the natural order, even if social mores and cultures organize men in positions of power. When it comes to the sexual realm, we all know who’s the boss.
There are also lots of kinks where straight men suck cock or penetrate another male. This might be punishment and degradation, it might be to fulfill her desires, and for some it is part of cuckold play—a woman might expect her boyfriend to “fluff” her lover’s cock to get it ready to fuck her, while he gets no pussy himself.
Since you say that you are new to this experience of sexual submission and humiliation, you can confess this honestly and use it to your advantage. It can be very exciting for a dominant woman or goddess to take on an initiate or newbie for training. The process can be extremely gratifying and arousing for both sides. You can ease your way into the BDSM scene by following your mistress’s orders and instructions.
On the other hand, since you crave extreme submission and humiliation, it can be tricky to find someone you trust quickly. You are putting your psyche and body into her hands and if your experience in BDSM is limited so far, it’s really important to find a goddess that you can trust. That takes time.
One solution, if you are comfortable with it, is to pay an experienced professional dominatrix. Professional mistresses are often trained, knowledgeable, and well versed in a variety of fetish practices. Safety of their clients is part of the package and expense. You’ll be able to peruse reviews in some cases, and learn something about her style and practice from her online presence.
Playing with a pro is also a way to explore a no-strings-attached relationship with a mistresses to start, so you can get comfortable and figure out what kinds of kinks work best for you, and what you want from future connections.
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