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Domination-Submission Games for Kinky Couples

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There are lots of ways to explore domination and submission. If you’re just starting out, or you’re an occasionally kinky couple without a dungeon and props, there are still lots of fun and sexy ways to play.

D/s Games to Get Your Kink On

Goddess Worship

I love to do this with your pants on. You spend the whole night servicing me. You massage me, and perfume me, and adore me. Your dick is busting through your jeans, but too bad—I won’t even touch it. You’re lucky that I’m letting you touch me. You will suck my pussy until you are begging to get in there. You will worship my breasts and thighs and ass. Get your fill now because there’s no guarantee I’ll let you worship me again.

Bondage Boss

I love the sensation of being bound, and helpless to do anything that might resolve my hunger. You can tie me up with handcuffs, leather restraints, Japanese rope knots, or with my pantyhose and silk scarves.

One thing that drives me wild when you’re in control is to be left to my own devices. You leave the room to go about your business—with my hands tied, I’m left naked and aching with desire.

Orgasm Denial

It can be tricky to hold back at the point of no return, but exploring the outer limits of orgasm is an unbelievable high. The submissive can service the master or mistress to the edge of coming to amp up the thrill, or the dom can withhold the orgasm from a sub as punishment.

You can build the plateau of ecstasy in many different ways. Being taken to the brink without going over, then brought right back a few minutes later, again and again, can be so intense and emotional that spontaneous weeping may result.

Cops and Robbers

There are many d/s role plays—boss and secretary, doctor and receptionist, giant football player and Tinkerbell—to explore. Playing a role is hot because you can change it up over and over. You can even play the exact same game, but as a different cat and mouse every time.

Mother, May I

If you are dating someone with different kinks than yours, you can play fun permission games that gradually introduce you both to your different toys, outfits, and tastes.

If you remember this game from the playground, one person says “Mother May I?” and then asks permission to do something arbitrary. You will ask her about a particular toy or technique and she will say, “Yes, you may” or “No, you may not.”

If Mommy is not your thing, call it Mistress, May I? or find some kind of game spinner and make your own rules for what happens when it lands on blue or red or green. Any system of sorts will do, and when you are granted a yes or the dice land on your numbers, you get to pick or demonstrate something, and vice versa.

The best tool you have for fun dom-sub games is your imagination. Experiment whether you are a new or old couple, and be as playful on your silver anniversary as you are as new lovers. There are always more games to play!

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