Curious about medical BDSM or looking for new ways to experience medical play with a lover?
Have you ever undergone a medical procedure, only to find yourself surprisingly aroused? If so, you’re not alone. Lots of people find doctor’s offices and hospital rooms to be a hotbed of erotic potential.
As far as kinks go, the medical kink is a popular one. Perhaps because there are so many ways to explore and enjoy medical BDSM.
What is Medical Play?
Medical play is a general term used to describe a variety of medical roleplay themes and BDSM games, all of which relate to the power-exchange dynamic between doctors and patients.
Many of us have some memory of “playing doctor” with childhood friends as a way of exploring our bodies and the differences between girls and boys. As grownups, this type of medical play will turn into a fantasy or fetish that becomes a sexual kink in their pleasure repertoire.
There are a lot of different aspects to medical play that turn people on. Just a few things that draw people to play doctor include:
- the inherent themes of domination and submission
- a kink for medical instruments and bodily insertions
- an interest in uniform fetish – think nurse’s outfit
- the tough yet tender approach of nurses and doctors
- a kink for specific procedures like enema fetish
- the many opportunities to use sexual roleplay
- dental fetish and other medical specialties
You’ll find medical kink in our big list of fetishes. Check it out if you’re curious to learn more about the wide world of fetish.
10 Medical BDSM Play Ideas
Let’s look at some ways to act out your medical fetish and incorporate BDSM and kink.
1. Play Doctor
Roleplay has multiple possibilities from doctor/nurse scenarios to nurse/patient to medical student/teacher. Many medical fetishists enjoy acting out scenes that start close to reality, then later evolve into a sexual “crossing of the line”.
Pick up a copy of a medical textbook, learn some words, and take your kinky medical dialogue to the next level.
Some professional BDSM dungeons will even have private rooms with medical equipment for couples to enjoy.
Read: 4 Doctor-Patient Role Play Ideas
2. BDSM Medical Exams
Strap your partner to a gurney, legs spread and mouth gagged. Make them lay there naked, without even the comfort of a flimsy hospital gown.
Start your examination. Use sensation play, including ice packs and hot wax to simulate some of the uncomfortable sensations that would be expected of a thorough doctor’s visit.
Read: Sensation Play for Beginners
For added humiliation, berate them for their lack of compliance. “Someone didn’t follow doctor’s orders, so now there will be consequences.” You get the idea.
3. Anesthesia Roleplay
Get your hands on one of those old fashioned anesthesia masks; the ones made of black rubber. Set the scene of an operating room, your medical play partner laying helplessly on the bed while you prep them for surgery.
Have your tray of tools on hand, and let your partner see each one. Tell them exactly how you plan to use them, then take a black marker or body paint and trace the path of your incision.
Get everything set up, then at the last minute slip the mask over your partner’s mouth and nose. Your partner’s imagination should be enough to get them off with this medical play.
4. Medical Play Temperature Taking
Lube up that thermometer and stick it in your partner’s ass. If there wasn’t a high temperature to begin with, things are bound to heat up soon. Lay your partner over your knee, perhaps working in some elements of paraphilic infatalism.
Based on the “results” of your temperature read, decide what medical interventions your partner needs in order to feel better. Perhaps they need an ice bath, or some chicken soup fed to them in bed. Maybe they’re not allowed to leave the bed at all until the fever has subsided.
5. Anal and Vaginal Insertions
There are more things than a thermometer to stick up your partner’s ass when playing with medical fetish.
Use a butt plug, experiment with anal beads, or re-enact a gynecological exam using a speculum and flashlight. Insert a tampon or a menstrual cup, whatever the patient’s health requires.
Be sure that whatever you insert can be easily removed, and don’t put anything sugary in your partner’s vagina because it could cause an infection bad enough to warrant a real trip to the doctor.
6. Medical Toys and Costumes
We’re all familiar with wrist restraints, but institutional wrist restraints are different.
We know about disposable enemas you can get from a local drugstore, but an enema syringe will take the experience to a 19th-century level.
You don’t have to shell out big bucks to play doctor. You can slowly start your collection of roleplay costumes and toys. Depending on your specific medical fantasies, you might include:
- doctor and nurse costumes
- thermometers
- bondage restraints
- speculums
- braces
- enema equipment
- diapers
- needle play equipment
7. Medical Sensation Play
Incorporating sensation play to your medical kink by adding cold and hot sensory to scenes (as many medical examinations involve) is another way to enjoy medical kink. This could be a warm thermometer inserted in the anus or a cold speculum into the vagina.
Read: Sensation Play for Beginners
8. Medical Domination and Submission
Roleplaying may not be enough of a turn on and merely a starting point. If you’re just trying out medical play, you may find adding a little more domination and submission to the mix will give it that extra kick you’re craving.
Bad nurse is very popular among medical fetishists as well as a doctor who takes advantage of his authority. Add some some medical bondage restraints to intensify the Dom/sub power exchange.
Read: 5 Domination and Submission Games to Play
9. Edge Play
Some medical fantasies go to the extremes with edge play and can be dangerous if you don’t know what you’re doing. This may include blood play with needles, injections, sutures, and cutting.
Proceed with caution, and learn from professional kinksters who have lots of experience.
Read: BDSM Education: Where to Learn Online
10. Voyeurism
Medical kink can be a turn on from a distance. Maybe you love medical porn (there’s plenty of it out there!) or like to read medical literotica.
With kink, direct participation isn’t always needed for instant stimulation. You can also watch fetishists at BDSM conventions acting out medical scenarios.
Another option is to join a kink dating site and play online. Try a site like FetishHookups.com, where they have live video chat between members so you can play doctor online.
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