Curious about post-orgasm torture and looking for some ideas?
After orgasm, our genitalia and whole bodies are exceptionally sensitive. With the release of tension and the soup of hormones after orgasm, stimulation of skin and body parts can be intense, unpleasant, even painful.
Most people want a break before continuing to touch pussy or cock, or even nipples. Many are finished altogether. You might describe immediate stimulation of these sensitive zones after orgasm as “torture.”
What Is Post Orgasm Torture?
Post-orgasm torture is when, following orgasm, we continue to stimulate genitalia and sexually responsive body parts, even though it is uncomfortable, raw, or painful. Post-orgasm torture stimulation can lead to incredibly intense orgasms but involves considerable discomfort or even pain sensations at first, hence the word “torture.”
Post-orgasm torture can be solo play or, more usually, part of BDSM. It often involves power play and ceding sexual control to another person. Post-cum torture is often part of femdom play.
Post-cum torture uses the colloquial “cum” which more often than not references male ejaculation and orgasm. “Cum” sometimes refers to orgasm more generally but usually points to the substance ejaculated, hence, “post-ejaculation torture.” However, post-cum torture or post orgasm torture is not just for penis-owning people! It is also for people with pussies and any variation thereof.
Post-orgasm torture can produce intense, exquisite sensations as well as exciting power dynamics, for anyone who wants to experiment with this kind of play.
Post Cum Torture Consent
It should always go without saying, but we’ll say it anyways—post-cum torture must be a consensual act, even when it is “forced.”
All sexual exchanges are necessarily consensual, but when the word “torture” is part of the play it is especially important that communication, understanding, and mutual consent are ensured and expected so that there are no mixed messages. It is easy to misinterpret a cry for a moan, or protest for pleasure.
Post-orgasm torture is not something everyone will enjoy, and for some, it is enjoyable only occasionally.
Post Orgasm Torture Techniques
There are many ways to torture a lover post-orgasm.
One way is to simply continue with hand, oral, or penetrative stimulation after his or her orgasm has finished.
A vibrating dildo or other kind of vibrator is also popular. We’ve all seen the porn with a woman bound against a noisy vibrator that continues to whir and buzz after her orgasm. This can be with or without the bondage element.
In a threesome, the third lover can enter the scene following the recipient’s orgasm to take her helping!
A man’s cock is often so tired following ejaculation that continuing stimulation on a slick, flaccid dick is torture indeed. This can be hand movements or fellatio.
Since most men are not erect in the aftermath of ejaculation, using a cock ring to maintain hardness can be effective.
The torture can be anything in your imagination—think about what you like to do to get to orgasm, and use it post cum—sensation play can be exquisite and intimate.
Cock and ball torture, spanking, pegging, licking are all variations that can be used here. Cunnilingus following orgasm is amazing—to make it “torture” you can do it harder or faster.
Read: His and Her Guide to Nipple and Breast Torture
Solo Post Orgasm Torture
Post-cum torture can be masturbation. Who says you are finished after the big O? Simply continue stimulation. It can be difficult to carry on solo because the body is begging for stimulation to stop, and your natural reflex is to quit doing what you’re doing. But you can train yourself to keep going. You can also use a vibrating toy or a fuck sleeve.
Read: BDSM Solo Play Ideas
Bondage Post Orgasm Torture
Post-orgasm torture goes hand in hand with BDSM because it involves exerting sexual control over another person or relinquishing that control.
Lovers don’t have to fit neatly into top/bottom or dom/sub roles to enjoy the intense experience, but many kinky folks do play that way. Bondage is about power and control and also about restraint, so whether you find both of these sides of bondage exciting or lean more one way doesn’t matter. Bondage post-orgasm torture is a sexy adventure.
Read: 5 Types of Bondage Play for BDSM Lovers
Bondage, of course, implies “being bound.” This can be anything from a silk scarf loosely knotted to handcuffs to ropes to mummification. The tension of restraint is one way to amplify and intensify sex, and the already intensified sensations of post-cum torture are especially wild when bound!
Femdom Post Orgasm Torture
Post-orgasm torture is a popular aspect of femdom and might involve the domme continuing with fellatio, jacking you, or even pegging following your ejaculation.
Humiliating a man or punishing him for premature ejaculation, for penis size, or for not satisfying her are all potential power-play aspects of post-cum torture in femdom play. She may use spanking, bondage, anal training, or cock rings to control you and torture you after ejaculation or make you eat your cum.
Read: Find a Femdom Seeking Submissive Men
Post Cum Torture with other Fetishes
Post-cum torture can easily be combined with a variety of fetishes. For example, if you’re into foot fetish, she can torture you after orgasm with her feet or high-heel boots. If she’s into spanking, using a paddle on her while forcing her to continue rubbing her clit might be exciting.
Post-orgasm torture is flexible, especially with bondage or BDSM kinks, but not exclusively. Tactile fetishists—say leather or latex—can use leather garments to continue post-cum stimulation, for example, or if you love being fisted, carry on after the fact.
For more orgasm torture tips, read: Forced Orgasm Ideas for BDSM Play
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